Alright.. I have an amazing boy friend who I've been going out for almost 5 months now, but lately I've developed feelings for another guy. I think about him all the time and he always smiles at me.
Is that normal?
What do you think I should do?
-sigh...
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? AdviceGiver28 answered Sunday May 18 2008, 2:23 pm: Yes this is very normal. Even tho you might really really like the guy you are with it's hard because before entering a relationship even if you just like one guy you feel no guilt when you flirt with other guys. Maybe it's just the fact that you haven't been able to really look around much. This doesn't mean that you don't love your boyfriend, it just means when you are with the same person for so long it's nice to just kinda take a look at other guys. But at the end of this phase you will realize that your boy is the best =]
Vegalicious21 answered Saturday May 17 2008, 12:34 pm: This is normal. I've felt like that many times in my relationship with my bf (we've been toghether for 1 year and a half) and we are both 14. I dont know how old you are... but its normal in any relationship. You have to think of the good and bad things in both, and listen to yur heart. Its up to you. If you really love your boyfriend, dont get mixed up in a little crush. Take the time, and see which one you love more.
Remember to do what your heart wants. And dont let people tell you what to do, they arent you.
mandyx3 answered Saturday May 17 2008, 12:00 pm: okk well i've had this problem before. i have been going out with my current boyfriend for almost 4 months now. and dont get me wrong, i love him. but, there is this one guy that i just met who i am really starting to like. he's really cute (he has gorgeous eyes)and i really like him. but then when i hang out with my boyfriend, it reminds me of how much i really love him, and why i'm with him instead of the other guy. you just really need to think about it. are you willing to give up your boyfriend for a guy who you sort of like now, and regret it later?? i would wait. you are probably with the right person if you have been dating for five months. the feelings for this guy who you are beginning to like may even be just lust. so stay with your guy. i hope i helped and tell me how it goes =]] [ mandyx3's advice column | Ask mandyx3 A Question ]
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