Member Since: May 18, 2008 Answers: 2 Last Update: May 18, 2008 Visitors: 602
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Alright.. I have an amazing boy friend who I've been going out for almost 5 months now, but lately I've developed feelings for another guy. I think about him all the time and he always smiles at me.
Is that normal?
What do you think I should do?
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Yes this is very normal. Even tho you might really really like the guy you are with it's hard because before entering a relationship even if you just like one guy you feel no guilt when you flirt with other guys. Maybe it's just the fact that you haven't been able to really look around much. This doesn't mean that you don't love your boyfriend, it just means when you are with the same person for so long it's nice to just kinda take a look at other guys. But at the end of this phase you will realize that your boy is the best =]
~AdviceGiver28~
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When I start to like a guy, I fall really fast and becoming to obsessive in my own mind. I constantly think about whoever it is at the time and I'll start to want to talk to him 24/7. Of course then I get bored quickly and move on to being obsessed with another guy.
How do I stop this annoying cycle so I can just be more chill with guys?
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Well I have had that same problem before. It seemed almost impossible for any guy to gain interest in me in that amount of time. So what i did was I decided to like more than one guy at once. Know that my options are open. And when you like a boy try to stay away and observe first and play some what hard to get. This will keep your interest in him for a while and spark his interest quickly. It worked well for me, i wish you luck =]
~AdviceGiver28~
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