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Posted Monday June 2 2008, 7:35 pm
okay so i hang out with alot of my friends and whenver i go out with them and we meet guys the guys always like one of them, but its never me. i get alot of compliments from people saying im pretty and i honestly think im pretty, not drop dead gorgeous, but pretty. why isn't anyone interested in me? its just so boring because i wanna be the "hard to get" one but my friends are all over the guys and flirty and stuff, thats not how i am but i still want guys to be interested in me , what do do? :(
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"...and lose him forever"
Posted Monday June 2 2008, 5:15 pm
So there's this guy (there always is..) who I half-like. (I say "half" because I have all the symptoms of liking him.. but can't possibly actually do so). Either way: He really is the sweetest guy and soo much fun to be around!
Now to the problem: He likes me. Not HALF-likes me. He really likes me. I've been through this before (hundreds of times) so I know what my options are:
A: Keep spending time with him, watch him fall for me, then reject him and break his heart when he asks me out.. and lose him forever.
B: Stop spending time with him to ultimately spare his feelings.. and lose him forever.
C: Tell him the truth, slowly see how things change between us and get awkward.. and lose hi...
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confusing situation!
Posted Monday June 2 2008, 8:33 am
So my ex who i went out with for 4 and a half months, told me on IM last night that he wanted to talk to me more because we haven't talked as much since he broke up with me. He also was telling me that it was the biggest mistake he's made in his whole life and he wish that day never happened. But then, my friend, who has been quitting quite close with him, has been getting closer and closer, and i asked my ex if he liked her, but he said 'kinda' and he's moving in 2 weeks, so i don't know what to do or say. I don't want to ruin friendships but on the other hand, i'll feel terrible. And i dont understand why he just told me all that but 'kinda' likes someone? i think he's ready to borderline ask her out? but hes moving? and ahh! i have no clue what to do
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Plan B Emergency Contraceptive
Posted Monday June 2 2008, 7:57 am
I took the first morning after pill at 2 pm (the day after having a condom break), I was supposed to take the second pill 12 hours later but i didn't wake up until 4am and took it then. My question is do you think that'll make much of a difference in it's effectiveness? I mean it can't completely fail just because you were 2 hours late on the second pill right?
Please help asap
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end of the year... end of the crush?
Posted Monday June 2 2008, 6:50 am
f/13
as you guys know , the end of the school year is coming up this week. I will be going to high school.
ANyway... there are these two guys that i like. Sam and Tyler. Tyler has been flirting a lot but has not asked me out. Sam is my friend and he hasn't asked me out either. Oh well. The problem is is that every day on teh bus... Sam sits next seat over and one up so we are diagonal. We will talk a lot intill his friends come on. But when his friend gets on he keeps on looking at me,,,i cant describe it but he looks at me as if he is seeing what i am doing,,, or asking for my approval on what they are talking about.
What should I do?
The school is almost over and I cant stand thinking abotu not seeing them for another 3 months.
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should I stay or should I go?
Posted Monday June 2 2008, 2:50 am
Ok my boyfriend and I keep arguing because HE keeps messing up. It feels like I'm the bad person because I'm always getting mad at him. So I tried to keep it in one time because it felt like I was nagging & he found out and told me to always tell him when I'm mad at him. So I do! He messes like every other day & he's said he's not used to having a gf. Well, common sense should tell him certain things he does.
But when he doesn't mess up we're perfect for each other! We laugh & talk & everything! Its greeeat!
I don't know what to do. We've been together a month and I don't know if its a time issue and I have to let him get used to me or what? I'm tired of hearing him say "I'm sorry" al...
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Is she manipulating me?
Posted Monday June 2 2008, 1:18 am
How do you know if someone is emotionally manipulative of you?
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Interracial Relationship
Posted Sunday June 1 2008, 10:54 pm
Has anyone been in an interracial relationship? Did you encounter any heat from your friends or family? Did you live in an area where there was a majority of one race?
Thanks
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Winning him back
Posted Sunday June 1 2008, 10:42 pm
My boyfriend of a year and I broke up last week. I love him so much, and he tells me that he loves me too, but I don't think it's as strong as it use to be. We're still friends, he still calls me everyday, so I think there's still something there so, I want to win him back.
I'm a bit of a tomboy and I dressed pretty for him and he was all over me that day, I don't know what else to do though... any tips? stuff that worked for you guys?
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CRUSH HELP
Posted Sunday June 1 2008, 8:55 pm
i really like this guy. on thursday, my teacher said that if these two girls bring in baked goods on friday, she'll make this writing assignment thing due on monday. i missed class on friday, and i didn't know whether the two girls brought in the baked goods or not. so i facebook messaged my crush:
me: hey, did we end up handing in our writing assignment on friday?
him: nah it's due monday
me: oh okay thanks. i just wanted to know if i should email it to her or not
him: you're welcome
i need to know if it would be awkward and / or obvious if i continued the thread, saying, "ooh so did ____ & ____ (the two girls) bring in the baked goods for class?
PROS IF I CONTIN...
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does he really want to marry me?
Posted Sunday June 1 2008, 7:41 pm
so my boyfriend sometimes says things like tomorrow we're going shopping...what kinda ring do you want? or you're perfect lets get married...or That finger would look even more beautiful with a big diamond ring on it...and stuff like that. is he just joking around or does he really want to get married? i'm 17 and he's 19 which is legal where i live but we've only been together for a few months and i deffiently don't want to get married but he says he loves me and blah blah blah...so i dont know what to think/say when he says stuff like this. I usually just laugh or something but yeah...it kinda weirds me out.
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a lived a false love how do I move on
Posted Sunday June 1 2008, 7:32 pm
I was with this guy for 11th month"s before we got together he was a dope dealer but by time we hooked up he wasn"t in that buisness no more we started dating he was my first serious relationship and I was his too we were each others first love as time went by we were both possitive about each other he knew my family andf I knew his he was nice to me but he was bipolar and I had my own issues so we understood each other he kwew I was a virgin and wanted to wait til marriage he accepted so as time went by there was more love, untill he confess to me he had went selling dope behind my back I forgave him, and than I heard rumor"s that he was cheating I asked him and he denied it so I believed him but our 11th whole month he sta...
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i said it, but hes not
Posted Sunday June 1 2008, 7:31 pm
background:im 16/f
bf is 15/m
been dating 1 week short of 6 months.
live 30 mins away, and see each other once on the weekends.
do u think its weird that i told my bf i love him on april 27 and he didnt say it back because he said he wasnt ready.and he still hasnt said anything?
its fine that hes not saying it because i take sayin " i love you" seriously and all.but i just think its weird he hasnt said it.i dont want to push him. but i'd like another guys opinion.
thank you
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Not interested.
Posted Sunday June 1 2008, 7:21 pm
A boy in my class who I have never really talked to named doug had asked me to jr. prom and I said sure because he is a cute kid and I felt bad. His friend Peter took one of my friends. Jr. Prom is over and I've been talking to Peter a lot. He has kind of hinted that he likes me and asked me to go with him to his friends bbq. I said sure because a lot of my friends were going. But when we went he kind of kept me away from everyone the whole time and kept making hints like "we are more than friends.." and it was weird. Luckily Doug and his friend Norm noticed I was not interested and saved me but man it was weird. Now Peter has been telling people he likes me and I dont know whether to give him a second chance or how to get ...
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First Dates
Posted Sunday June 1 2008, 6:57 pm
13/f
I've had a few boyfriends , but mostly we just hung out & stuff , no real dates.Today , I went on a date with the guy I've been with for like a couple weeks.I was just wonder how anyone else's first or first few dates were ?
Oh and we went to the movies.
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boyfriend or friend?
Posted Sunday June 1 2008, 5:23 pm
well i like this guy named ryan, and my friend likes him too. technically shes liked him longer, but that dosent mean anything does it? shes made out with him, but he likes me. she likes him alot, but since he likes me shouldnt i be able to date him? HELP
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Don't wanna be naked.
Posted Sunday June 1 2008, 4:31 pm
Okay I didn't know what catagory to put this under so sorry But here is the question. and to tell you the truth it's kinda embarressing but here it goes anyways:
Q: Okay I've got 36 C breast. They're pretty average size I'm 13. But the thing is They have stretch marks all over them. I HATE IT. I cant wear low cute bikini's or anything!
AND i'm sure when I'm married and you know... have sex or whatever I won't wanna get naked. WHAT DO I DO. I don't wanna buy anything, unless that's all there is. But is there some kinda treatment that involves stuff I might have around the house?
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this boyyy
Posted Sunday June 1 2008, 4:28 pm
okay so we'll name him J...wlel J and i met a few weeks ago...he's super cute, super tall, ans super sweet. okayy well i talk to him on aim and stuff and we flirt sometimes...like on monday i had a project to do and i spent the whole night doing it...and he was up doing it with me also...like he kept me company the whole entire night...i think i like him and stuff...and i also got his number
so my questions are:
*** do i call him??...and when..b/c i got his number on may 26th
*** do you think he likes me...i know it's kinda hard to tell b/c you can't read the convo..but is him staying up all night with me a sign??
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break
Posted Sunday June 1 2008, 10:55 am
Okay so me ad my boyfriend have been dating a year, i love him id do anything for him hes been a best friend for me through so much stuff and i cant imagine things after us. Lately he was distant and last night he asked for a break because he didnt know what he wanted all my friends think hes a "douchebag" and i can do better. not just because of this instant but because of many. but i dont anyone else, as much as he says hurtful things i still love him and i know he loves me too. we decided not to talk for a week and see where that leaves us at first he says its going to help and then he says not to be hopeful. im so confused i want him so badly he says he doesnt know if he wants us, he says time has taken a toll. im really lost...
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He's leaving...
Posted Sunday June 1 2008, 10:46 am
So I have been dating this guy for 10 months now, and he will be leaving in Sept for school overseas, the thing is... I know I'm going to be So hurt and in tears almost everday for about a month... I don't want to be like that!! I want to be able to end the relationship with a smile, don't go on any rebounds and just be happy that I was with someone SO great and NOT cry and break-down, you know?! I want this because we BOTH know when he has to leav, and so it shouldn't be so tough, right?! So any advice would REALLY help!! :P Please... Thanks!!
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