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Winning him back
My boyfriend of a year and I broke up last week. I love him so much, and he tells me that he loves me too, but I don't think it's as strong as it use to be. We're still friends, he still calls me everyday, so I think there's still something there so, I want to win him back.
I'm a bit of a tomboy and I dressed pretty for him and he was all over me that day, I don't know what else to do though... any tips? stuff that worked for you guys?
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You could try playing the jealously card. Invite him and a bunch of friends (including cute male friends) over and when he's there, flirt with the other guys. He might see that you're doing it and not like you flirtly with somebody else.
Plus, even if he doesn't say anything to you about it, you're flirting with some other guy, which you may realize you like in the process.
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If you guys had dated for a YEAR, which is VERY long and I'm very proud of you, then, you should't have to 'dress-up or dress-down', the reason he got with you wasn't because you dressed up and ACTED like someone else. If you're a tomboy, that is what you are and you shouldn't change for anyone, even him! I doubt you even need too, he was probably all over you that day when you dressed up because it was something new to hima nd so he got excited, guys usually are like that to new things.
So, my advice is that you play it cool, keep talking, flirting etc. And because the two of you dated for a year, I'm sure you two can talk about ANYTHING, because that is how comfortable you both are, so talk about the breakup and TELL HIM!! tell him you still love him, and want him back. Guys can be quite practical! Most relationships fail because of the lack of communication, so talk to him, have a serious talk and tell him how you feel, don't be worried about what he thinks or anything. You are who you are and that is who he feel in love with in the first place and that is who he truly loves!
P.S This is what I strongly feel, and it has helped me through many tough times and as well as my friends. So be true and all will come true! ;D
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Well, why did you break up in the first place? If you love him so much and he loves you too, what went wrong?
If you've got issues between each other, you need to sort them out. Since you didn't put in your letter as to why you broke up, I'm assuming that it was something trivial, which means you can work it out. Then you can ask him whether you can have another go.
Dressing up isn't enough, you need to ask.
You dated for a year, so there must be some chemistry between the two of you.
I hope this helped,
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