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i said it, but hes not
background:im 16/f
bf is 15/m
been dating 1 week short of 6 months.
live 30 mins away, and see each other once on the weekends.
do u think its weird that i told my bf i love him on april 27 and he didnt say it back because he said he wasnt ready.and he still hasnt said anything?
its fine that hes not saying it because i take sayin " i love you" seriously and all.but i just think its weird he hasnt said it.i dont want to push him. but i'd like another guys opinion.
thank you
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you gotta remember boys mature a lot slower than girls. he's probably just scared and/or might even love you just doesnt even know what it is. dont take it as him trying to be mean, he's just scared probably.
if he shows you he cares and you guys have lasted this long you dont need to actually hear the words to know it's true.
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so hun im not a guy sorry but i said i love you to my boyfriend for 2 yrs ago now and it was after the first or second week we started dating, we saw each other very little as well, i thought i was stupid bc i had to say it first and it seemed too quick to me but after 2 yrs of being together it doesnt seem like the wrong thing at all. sometimes true love surprises you when you lest expect it.
so i dont think its weird you told him because if you mean it and you know its serious then dont worry you said how you felt and thats good thats very good you can express yourself.
and yes you dont want to rush him but just give him some time and if he says it then go from there and if not he might be not to sure but you just dont want to push him to say it because sweetie youd rather have him say it and mean it then just say it to make you feel better bc that hurts so much more then him just not saying it.
sorry i couldnt give you a guys opinion but i hope i helped you out and just give it some time hun and see what happens!
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It isn't weird at all. If anything- you've found a keeper!
People these days tend to throw those words around like they mean nothing, and I'm not saying you aren't. I know you and I know you wouldn't say it unless you thought you meant it. So when he hasn't said it back- it doesn't mean he doesn't- it means that he doesn't want to say it, then two weeks later break up with you and feel stupid. He'll say it when he feels the relationship is strong enough that it will most likely continue.
Cherish this boy. There aren't many like him out there =].
--Jack
(16/m)
*Happy Belated Birthday!*
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