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long distance relationship
Posted Friday July 4 2008, 8:38 pm
me and my boyfriend live in different states
im still young and i know everyone is probably like youre an idiot and its not worth it
but if you really love someone, everything is worth it.
but idk lately. the past couple of days he does realllly seem like he cares cause i got sad and he started crying on the phone and i felt bad and stuff and like he always spills his heart out for me
but then today i got online and he earesed his heroes part (it was a cute paragraph about me) and in his intersesnt he put my baby (me) and then some other girls name an im like okk.. and then the girl was infront of me on his top and i like questioned him about it and he said dont worry were just really good friends i promise.
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Posted Friday July 4 2008, 7:26 pm
ok this isnt really a "question" i just need some suggestions. my bf and i can get very flirtatious at times and last night he said he hated dancing/dances ect. and to me tat is basically sac-religious, silly i know but dancing is like my life. anyways i told him tat was against the law and he had broken that law so he must b "punished" lol now normally it wouldnt b very hard for me to tink of someting fun to do but i have sort of run out of ideas. so if u have any ideas on wat i could do/make him do tat would b fun for both of us it would b great.thanks
~*lis*~
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lonely for too long
Posted Friday July 4 2008, 5:28 pm
I haven't had a boyfriend in years. I'm not conceited, but I know I'm not ugly. Plus, in the place I live, it's not very hard to get attention. The thing is, why do I still not have a boyfriend? Sure I'm shy, but I see way uglier, shyer girls out there with boyfriends, and I can't figure out why I'm still alone. I'm not the kind of person to respond to some rude holler, or to go after some boy when I'm called. I may be picky, but I don't want to just settle for some horn dog. Am I being unreasonable or something? I'm Hispanic, but I'm tired of the guys I'm always around. I know it sounds weird, but I've never dated a white person. They seem much less rude and obnoxious, but getting people to try something new isn't easy. Since they're much ...
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i need advice for my friend.
Posted Friday July 4 2008, 5:09 pm
my friend _________, 15 went to church camp not too long ago and she met this 18 yr old guy and they became friends and hung out most of the time. they live in different states and they text and stuff. when they were at camp, this 'fortuneteller' told them they were going to get married, they both know he's a joke. but now that guy from church camp texts my friend ________ stuff like 'we should get married', 'i want to come visit you, what's your address?', and other really crazy stuff that she didn't tell me. but she really wants advice because she doesn't like this guy and doesn't want him to visit her or get married but she wants to still be friends. so i need really good advice, because all of her friends have tried and noone could help her, so...
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Posted Friday July 4 2008, 2:21 pm
I'm 18. Should I go out with a 26 year old guy?
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Posted Friday July 4 2008, 11:46 am
am hurt my bf just broke up with me becaused i put my h girl to talk to him he said this was no game i cry to him begg him but i dk what else to do he keeps textin me how does it feels i really love him but what should i do
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Help a 50 years old singl man to stop dating for one Year?
Posted Friday July 4 2008, 11:17 am
I’m a 50 years-old man and I addicted a lot of sexual relations and dating with very beautiful ladies .I decided recently to quite this unsatisfied behavior .I have stopped dating women for four months so far and I want to continue for more one year .Can you help my with some advice how I can be strong against the temptation of women especially that I’m single.
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complicated.
Posted Friday July 4 2008, 1:49 am
what do you do when you're with a guy you love & who it would hurt to lose, but see yourself with the one you're IN love with, forever. the one you're in love with is in love with you too and wants to be with you again, but is also in a pickle because he LIKES someone else. when do you know what's right?
the one im with? he's great, and i do love him alot, and want to be with him.
the other one? i honestly think we're made to be together, i can honestly see myself with him my whole life, and i dont want to lose him. however, he has stuck around for almost 8 months after the breakup because of his feelings for me.
i dont even know where to start.
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"..past the infatuation phase.."
Posted Thursday July 3 2008, 11:52 pm
I have been with my boyfriend a little over three years. We love each other more than anything, and I know this. But since it's been so long, the "infatuation phase" (c/o of John Legend [; ) has sort of passed. Of course we're still affeectionate and cute sometimes, but sometimes I feel like I try much harder than him to keep that little spark alive- and by spark, I mean the cutesy stuff, like silly mushy messages now and then, sending songs that remind us of the other, etc. I do all these things and he normally does not, whereas in the beginning of our relationship he did.
Basically, is it okay that the small, silly things we used to do so often have become uncommon and we've gone into more of a comfort phase? We s...
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hard question-fish allergy
Posted Thursday July 3 2008, 7:05 pm
my boyfriend and i can be pretty romantic. we want to go out to dinner at a nice resturant. theres a problem, hes allergic to fish. just smelling fish makes his throat close up. he cant eat peppers or onions because he has ulcers.. and we live in washington. where the main food group is sea food. we have tried mexcian, itlian, chinese, thai.. they all have served seafood. what kind of food does not have seafood in it?? i have called every resturant intown asking if they have seafood before. i need help thinking of atleast a type of food that wouldnt serve seafood. any help thanks tons
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Is he using me? (very long! please bare with me)
Posted Thursday July 3 2008, 6:55 pm
Okay, I like this guy. We met a month ago at the carnival, we were both a little buzzed off of vodka. But my friends being the best people they are, hooked me up with him. We were on the ferris wheel making out like crazy. And after that he gave me his number, and his name to add him on facebook. Then i had to leave.. he gave me a huge hug and we madeout for a minuet and my friends were pulling me away. i really had to go. A week later, i met him up at my friends going away party. We got insanely wasted and went to third--on both of our parts--that was two weeks ago. Other then that, we have been talking on aim/facebook every day. He calls me sometimes and i call him once in a while. I'm going away to hollywood in 14 days for a week, and ...
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I meeting his parents...
Posted Thursday July 3 2008, 5:15 pm
14/f
Okay. My boyfriend and I have been going out for a few weeks now. Up until now, he's only met my parents but this Saturday I'm going to a cook-out party with his family. I really want to make a good impression. He is my first boyfriend so I have no experience in this. Besides being polite do you have any advice on how to impress his parents?
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apoligize...
Posted Thursday July 3 2008, 4:48 pm
16/female.
last summer i had this i guess you can say "fling" with this guy who WAS my best friend.. then well we started to like eachother..
well apperently the fling thing didnt work out and he ended it. So ive been tring to heal and move on. Its been super hard and ever guy i start to like doesnt even compare to him.
Well this summer i started to actually be friends with him again and well i still like him and he still likes me so i guess we started to "talk" again and we even talked about what happen last time and said this time we didnt wanna fling and both want to start at the beginning to get to no each other over again and well it seems pretty okay but im not sure i can open...
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boyfriends birthday..
Posted Thursday July 3 2008, 1:14 pm
well it my bf bday in like 5 days and i still dont have a present i have no idea what to get ?
any ideas??
fav coulour -- black and red
very punk
he's into punk music
skateboarding
drumming
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relationship problems
Posted Thursday July 3 2008, 12:35 pm
hi me and my boyfriend have been dating for 6 and a half months im 19 and so is he when we first starting dating it was great he called me every night he texted me all the time and we always had fun together now he rarely calls or texts if he does call its around midnight and if i call him he is always with his friends and either says i cant talk right now or he talks to them the whole time while i am on the phone listeneing and sometimes he calls me when he is with the friends and i just have to listen to him talk to them and now we are always fighting he never invites me to do anything with him and his friends anymore either he awways teels me wat hes doing as hes doing it doesnt even invite me and his friends are over every night and he ...
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I don't know what to do or make of this
Posted Thursday July 3 2008, 11:10 am
Me and this guy have known each other for almost two years now, and we started out going out and broke up after a month, but just got alot closer. Anyway a year and a half later we are really close and we like each other. Anyway, there is something that is keeping him from me. But there is this other guy that likes me and I had feelings for him but my feelings for this other guy that I love was keeping me from saying yes to him. So I asked him (the guy who I like) what he wanted, and he told me that he didnt want me to be with the other guy because he would miss me and he wouldn't know what he would do without being as close as we are now. I told him I needed to a reason to stay, because I knew he wanted me to stay with him (even though we ...
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drunk lies
Posted Thursday July 3 2008, 3:19 am
So I know this guy.
We used to like eachother
and then all of a sudden he freaked out and stopped talking to me.
and then a couple weeks later he said he wanted to be cool with me... we were both at a party and we got drunk and he coaxed me into his bedroom and made out and some clothes flew off and I asked him I was like why are you doing this I thought you hated me?
and he kept saying over and over again I like you I like you...bla bla bla
soo I beleived it at the time.
And then after that of course he didnt call me or anything.
But then like a long time later after pissing each other off a bunch. We finally see eachother at a small party at my friends house.
He says hey to me in the...
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How can I top this?
Posted Thursday July 3 2008, 3:03 am
f/17
My bf (18) does the cutest things for me. during school, he filled my locker with a bunch of balloons and chocolate and stuffed animals and confetti and when I opened it, everything came pouring out and a sign popped out that said i love you. Another thing he did was write cute little messages on a million rose petals that led to my front door. I constantly find little love notes in random places whenever he comes over or in my car. one time he wrote all over his body, supposedly to support his sister's soccer game and there was ink alllll over him and then at midnight we rode our tandem 2-seat bike to the lake and we swam and when he got out of the water, everything washed off except for I love you on his abs. He wrote everythi...
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is there hope?
Posted Thursday July 3 2008, 2:25 am
14/f
So,
i met this guy at this dinner party for my parents, and he is as old as me [ i could tell ][we were the only kids there, other than some 2 year olds] we didnt really talk, but he was SO GOOD LOOKING!! anyway, he kept trying to make eye contact [i did sometimes to though] , he would always turn towards me and then "look at the sky", so, if we met again, would there be hope?? like by the way he always tried to make eye contact and im talking always! so, yeah, could this mean anything?
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he needs a job.
Posted Thursday July 3 2008, 12:05 am
my boyfriend and i have been dating for 5 months. he is 18 and just graduated high school in may. in all the time we've been dating, or since i've known him which was in august, he hasn't had a job. he had a car until he got his license suspended in november for a speeding ticket. this means that all this time we've been dating, I'VE been either going to his house to see him or been lugging him around everywhere we go and I'VE been paying for us to go out. and quite honestly, i hate it. he was supposed to get his license back in april but couldn't because it costs over $200 and he doesn't have the money. his parents are helping him and he's mad at THEM for the fact that he cant get it back. he has done some yard work and stuff for neighbors...
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