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Is he using me? (very long! please bare with me)
Okay, I like this guy. We met a month ago at the carnival, we were both a little buzzed off of vodka. But my friends being the best people they are, hooked me up with him. We were on the ferris wheel making out like crazy. And after that he gave me his number, and his name to add him on facebook. Then i had to leave.. he gave me a huge hug and we madeout for a minuet and my friends were pulling me away. i really had to go. A week later, i met him up at my friends going away party. We got insanely wasted and went to third--on both of our parts--that was two weeks ago. Other then that, we have been talking on aim/facebook every day. He calls me sometimes and i call him once in a while. I'm going away to hollywood in 14 days for a week, and i come back and go to my house in arizona. I want to see him! i've asked him to hang out two or three times, but he has had baseball practice. he said he could hang out after 7:00 every time i ask him.. he wanted to take me to the movies. But us underaged 15 year olds cant drive in the state of ny! He is the most adorable guy ever.. i just recently broke up with my ex of 6 1/2 months becuase i found out he was using me for ass.. which really pissed me off. But last night my lover, ill call him K, after talking for a long time and calling me a lesbian saying he doesn't talk to lesbians and i was like but im not and he was like ahha i was like well its your decision if i talk to you or not. and he was like yeah and i said dont. but he imed me today.. talking like nothing happened last night. And when he or i have to go, i say byee<3 and he says <$. I have no idea what that means. But hes telling my friend [who hooked us up] Amanda that when he sees me he wants to ask me out. And that he misses me. And he constantly is commenting on my facebook photos saying "i misss youu!"
"Him (12:19:38 AM): oh waitttt
Me (12:19:42 AM): mmmhm?
Him (12:20:05 AM): did i tell you that there having a legit porno company goign to my bros frat house to make videoss
Me (12:20:16 AM): nope.
Him (12:20:19 AM): now i did
Me (12:20:26 AM): ahahaa are you serrious?
Him (12:20:29 AM): yeahh
Him (12:20:34 AM): im gonna go up aha
Me (12:20:38 AM): ahah.
Me (12:20:57 AM): have fun with thatt.
Him (12:21:01 AM): i will
Him (12:21:15 AM): they went up last year and i heard they were the horniest things aliveee
Him (12:21:19 AM): ahah
Me (12:21:24 AM): aha
Him (12:22:49 AM): ur boring im going outtt
Me (12:22:53 AM): mkayy. bye.
Him (12:22:56 AM): pzzzzzz
Him signed off at 12:23:24 AM."
That makes me feel like he was using me, do you guys from reading this piece of information think that he was using me? He also [jokingly] calls me gay, stupid, a dyke, etc. then i say "you're not nice" and he says "you know im kidding". But im just not sure anymore...whats going on!?.. Help!
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the first thing i'm gonna say is something you're not gonna like:
you're fifteen and you're boozing it up and getting to third because of it? not a good idea. something bad WILL happen.
now, away from that rant:
it sounds like he might be using you. scratch that, i think he is. you really need to talk to him about it though; don't just dump him or anything like that too quickly. it does sound like he's a bit of an ass, though. he calls you a lesbian/dyke/stupid and you just let him keep doing it? that's not good, hun.
i have a few classmates (go to an all-boys private school) that sound exactly like this guy. they get drunk and hang out with really nice and beautiful girls (well, most of them are beautiful) and end up getting really far (i.e. third base) with them. they then keep them around because the girl thinks they like them (and these guys are all the big jocks). if he's not nice to you, he's not worth it. at all.
the sex stuff is not a good idea. it makes guys think you're easy, and you'll tend to get used more often than not. i don't know if you do that with other guys that you're not even "officially" going out with, but it's a REALLY bad idea to drink and then get sexual at 15. something bad WILL happen. i know you'll rate me down for that, but it's the truth.
peace
collin
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Honestly? I think he is out to impress you. Some guys will say the most crazy things to impress a girl. I think he really likes you and is willing to see if you'll 'test' him out. I think if you called his bluff he'd renege on what he said. He may just want in your pants but you can't allow him to do that. If that's all he wants then he is not worth it. Calling his bluff will let you know for sure if he is just in it to impress you or not.
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well personally, i think he likes you. hes just trying to be sexy. but watchout, because he is kinda horny. maybe he was drunk when he called you a lesbian or his friend did it. if he takes the time to tell you i miss you,,, thennn!?!? hhahah. i think he likes you. but becareful, because he looks like one of those guys who likes to get drunk. first think about whether or not when you leave on vacation that he wont go off and hookup with other girls. because if he does, then that shows you something, but there deff. something there if he takes the time to call you and tell you he misses you. and that whole sex party porno thing... hes trying to show you hes a man. pshhh whateverrr! but yeah good luckkkk!
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you need to break up with him or either sit him down and ask him is he just using you and if he is dont be no fool and stay with becasue thats retard and if you decided to give him another chance you both of yall retarded no offense just dont be no dummy
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