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i need advice for my friend.
my friend _________, 15 went to church camp not too long ago and she met this 18 yr old guy and they became friends and hung out most of the time. they live in different states and they text and stuff. when they were at camp, this 'fortuneteller' told them they were going to get married, they both know he's a joke. but now that guy from church camp texts my friend ________ stuff like 'we should get married', 'i want to come visit you, what's your address?', and other really crazy stuff that she didn't tell me. but she really wants advice because she doesn't like this guy and doesn't want him to visit her or get married but she wants to still be friends. so i need really good advice, because all of her friends have tried and noone could help her, so...
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Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Has SHE tried talking to him?
Her friends won't have any influence over the guy because:
A. He doesn't know them personally.
B. They aren't your friend.
C. He doesn't care what they say.
SHE needs to make it clear to HIM that she doesn't want to get married or whatever creepy things he's saying. If he continues after she talks to him, she should just STOP talking to him. Who wants to be friends with a creep? =/
-Laura. (16-f)
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well tell your friend that she needs to tell this guy that she's not interested in him like that and that she only wants to be friends and nothing more.
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Hmm.. thats a toughie! Maybe she should flat out tell him the truth, that she isnt interested in seeing him, but she still wants to be friends. Good luck!
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