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complicated.
what do you do when you're with a guy you love & who it would hurt to lose, but see yourself with the one you're IN love with, forever. the one you're in love with is in love with you too and wants to be with you again, but is also in a pickle because he LIKES someone else. when do you know what's right?
the one im with? he's great, and i do love him alot, and want to be with him.
the other one? i honestly think we're made to be together, i can honestly see myself with him my whole life, and i dont want to lose him. however, he has stuck around for almost 8 months after the breakup because of his feelings for me.
i dont even know where to start.
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kittzen to the resuce,
ok let me see two guys love you and you love them back. ti's a charmed problem isn't. this guy that likes the other girl do you think he might be happier with her? you see yourself with this dude that hangs around and your heart wants you two to bw together forever so go to him. you say this guy wants you back and you want him back, so follow your heart but be aware of the ones you'll hurt in the process. but the guy that likes the other girl might be happier and glade in the long shot that you did this.
think about the awnster will come to you.
Kittzen.
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I find it interesting how many people out there think they should limit their love. In limiting love, you limit the spirit and the spirit has no limits. If you're lucky, you will find many people to love in your life time, but you will only find one that you can like intensely.
You love equally, it has only one degree and never stops once given. Like, however, has many degrees and can go away completely. Love is not what a person should act upon when deciding who to spend their life with, because it is often given too easily. Like takes time and is the true foundation that a life long relationship is built on.
You like this young man more then the other, it should be the main consideration here, not the love you feel for them. I think you all need to understand this and figure out just where it is your like for each other is leading you.
You don't say one way or the other, but I would just like to add; this is why you should not bring sex into a relationship until you're sure. It adds a level of emotional complication you should not be having to deal with.
Be well, choose wisely,
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if you both love each other, you should be with each other. also, its not fair for either of your significant others for you to feel that way while being with them. it's much better to let them know now than to let the situation drag on and on. because then things will get much worse.
hope that made sense...lol
good luck! :)
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