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relationship problems
hi me and my boyfriend have been dating for 6 and a half months im 19 and so is he when we first starting dating it was great he called me every night he texted me all the time and we always had fun together now he rarely calls or texts if he does call its around midnight and if i call him he is always with his friends and either says i cant talk right now or he talks to them the whole time while i am on the phone listeneing and sometimes he calls me when he is with the friends and i just have to listen to him talk to them and now we are always fighting he never invites me to do anything with him and his friends anymore either he awways teels me wat hes doing as hes doing it doesnt even invite me and his friends are over every night and he says he didnt invite them that they have a key and he doesnt even wanna b there with them we never really go out anymore we just sit at home and watch tv he says he is always romantic but i cant even remember the last time he was, we only see each other like 1 a week, we both really love each other wat should i do to save our relationship
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hi well sometimes people change the problem might be him but the problem might also be you too try to rexamine your expectations of your relationship and his expectations and try to come to an agreement on what you guys should be doing and how often fights are common after the honeymoon stage and should be considered normal unless they happen very frequently and/or are very serious if you can't agree on a set of expectations it might be best to break it off since neither of you are happy as things stand hope I helped.
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You seem so sure in your statement, yet I can not see how you can be. Tell me, are you going to speak for him the rest of his life? His actions do not speak to me as being "really" in love, his actions say, I'm bored with this relationship and I'm doing everything I can think of to get you to dump me, because I don't have the balls to dump you.
Do I need to say more? I'm not sure I do. People are not what others say they are, they are not what they say they are, they are what their actions reveal them to be.
Talking is over rated, stop seeing him, see what his actions reveal to you.
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Well, there's definitely something wrong here. He's not communicating with you. He's being pretty sketchy if you ask me. You really should take the time to talk to him about this. Let him know that it makes you angry when he's not including you in his plans or making alone time with you. I know how it is when you hardly ever see your boyfriend, because that's how it is for me right now too. How about you make a date. Call him ahead of time, and make dinner plans. It'll be good for the both of you to hang out again and then he can also tell you if there's been something on his mind that he needs to tell you.
Hope this answer helps and you can take it into consideration!
xo
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