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long distance relationship
me and my boyfriend live in different states
im still young and i know everyone is probably like youre an idiot and its not worth it
but if you really love someone, everything is worth it.
but idk lately. the past couple of days he does realllly seem like he cares cause i got sad and he started crying on the phone and i felt bad and stuff and like he always spills his heart out for me
but then today i got online and he earesed his heroes part (it was a cute paragraph about me) and in his intersesnt he put my baby (me) and then some other girls name an im like okk.. and then the girl was infront of me on his top and i like questioned him about it and he said dont worry were just really good friends i promise.
and he has this blog that like you answer questions and she did it and it said she has a crush on him.. and another blog where you put your name and he will tell you honest thing about you and he said all i can say is your perfect. and he commented most of her pictures and kept saying shes cute
i really dont know what to do becuase he tells me he loves me and we talking on the phone from like 12 at night to 5 in the morning every day and like hes perfect when it comes to us
but i odnt know what to think about that girl and everything..
i need help!
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hey there!
well, i'd say be careful. i know he might be PERFECT.. but no relationship is perfect. guys can say they love you, anyone can female or male but they can have other intentions. im quite young.. but i ended up learning the hard way. so please, keep your guard up, and i wouldnt be too happy about that girl...why is it all of a sudden that she's next to you on his tops and he suddenly gives her shout outs etc etc.. how would he feel? good luck! keep an eye open and remember, you're young so if this one doesnt work it wasnt meant to be.. dont kill yourself over it!
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Kittzen says,
Listen to me it dosn't sound like he likes you anymore, he's getting to the point where if i can't see your face you don't matter but he wants to keep you around. if you dumm you'll say with, this girl he has on his myspace and all that it looks like shes in your spot.
i don't know what to tell you but he he wants his cake and eat it too, in fact it seems like he wants two cakes. if he loves you and you chose to stay just try to close your heart up a bit because he going to leave you for her if he hadn't already.
i sorry but with this advice your gooing to get hurt.
Sorry,
Kittzen
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:) you are right, that when your heart is in a relationship, it can be the most powerful thing in the world. the key to enjoying a long distance relationship is to make sure that you ALWAYS have something to look forward to--even if it is a couple months away (but keep in mind, there is a limit.. you are only human.)
as far as this other girl is concerned, if you love and trust him, and he says that it is just a friend, then you need to trust that he is telling you the truth. the love that he might have for her is different than the love he might have you for you, or the love he has for his family. I know it is hard to feel secure in a relationship that is long-distance, but that is the key to being happy, especially when you seem to have a boy that can express his feelings openly to you. If she is an important part of his life, you might want to get to know her-- i'm sure you will feel better about the whole thing once you find out for yourself that she has harmless intentions.
:) i hope everything works out.. please let me know if you come to a resolution, but remember no matter what happens you still have your memories and those are worth the most.
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