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Posted Tuesday August 19 2008, 11:03 pm
i feel like i dont do enough for my boyfriend of 8 months, so what are some ideas of cute things i can do for him? the other day he invited me over and had a big vase of roses and a letter telling me how much he loves me with candles lit. it was adorable and i really want to pay him back within a week! any ideas?
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Losing interest.
Posted Tuesday August 19 2008, 9:16 pm
16/f Alright, sorry this might be a little long. I've been dating this wonderful boy since a month ago yesterday. He's so sweet to me. The bad thing is that he lives nearly four hours away. =/ About a little more than a week into the relationship, he was rushed to the hospital for an inflammed pancreas. One side of his pancreas just stopped working, so he was in there for two weeks. He got out Saturday night I think and ever since he's barely spoken to me at all. I know it's only been a few days. He IMed me the next night and told me how much he missed me and that he promised me he'd make up for lost time. Ever since that, he texted me once. Earlier today, when I signed on AIM, he was on, so I waited for a few minutes to see if he IMed me, ...
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what to do with this bathingsuit top
Posted Tuesday August 19 2008, 8:40 pm
i just ordered a white bathing suit top from victoria's secret. unfortunately, when i got it in the mail today i realized that it looks ridiculous. the sewing makes it look like my nipples are poking through, when in reality it looks that way even off of me. i think it is so odd looking because it is white, but i don't know. so-what should i do with the bathingsuit top? it looks so weird on me. i can't return it either. so i have to do something with it. it's made out of nylon/spandex. help!
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freind with benefits
Posted Tuesday August 19 2008, 8:12 pm
i had sex with this guy, and we'vehung out many times after and we're still friends. He always IMs me and talks to me on the phone but i cant tell if he jsut kinda lieks me, or lies me alot. Hes told me that he likes me but i know he also liked other girls then too, and he doenst want a relationship. I dont want to be in a relationship now either but i just want to find out if he likes me more than i liek him. so how can i find this out? i cant just straight out ask him because im afriad it will be awkward.
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His cheatin heart....
Posted Tuesday August 19 2008, 4:59 pm
Im 17 and Ive been with my boyfriend now for about a year. He's a really nice guy and he lost his virginity to me, but he cheated on me 2months ago...he slept with his ex!! he said it was because he was curious and it was a stupid mistake and that he loves me so much and im the only one for him. He swears he would never do it again, Should i believe him?? or leave him???
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Me & My Personal Trainer ?!?!
Posted Tuesday August 19 2008, 2:42 pm
Hi! Ok so I'm 19 and early in the summer joined a gym. Im already skinny but I really wanted to tone up. So me and my guy friend got a personal trainer. After 3 weeks together I sent him a text thanking him for working with me. He's 24 and gorgeous by the way. After that day he would always text me, and talk to me at the gym flirtaciously. I didn't think anything of it because I thought its his job to be nice, but one day he told me how he thought I was hot. Or that he wants to get to know me. After a month every trainer knew my name and saw how my trainer acted towards me. Last thursday he texts me saying how sexy I am and stuff. And I guess I got the txt really delayed because I texted him back at 11:15pm. On Friday morning I get a call f...
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too attached! hellpp pleassee
Posted Tuesday August 19 2008, 11:02 am
hi, I am 16 the guy I was seeing is 20 he is a really good guy and just don't judge I need advice... anyway, we talked for like 3 months everyday, anyway like 2 weeks ago he seemed very distant and he seemed really short with me so I asked him what was wrong what am I doing wrong and he said " I just don't have the feelings for you anymore babe we can still be friends" I asked him why I didn't understand and he said that I was too attached too quick. I need to know how can I show him that I have changed and how do I change and how do I get him back ever since he told me that I have been really depressed and stuff, I need you guys help!! thank you ahead of time, I rate high
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I don't know what to do with Myself Anymore.
Posted Tuesday August 19 2008, 6:57 am
I'm Nakhle From Lebanon.I'm always sad,always sitting on the Internet doing nuthin but eating,chatting and surfing the net.I Feel Like This world doesn't react with me.My problem is That i never had a true life,I'm so empty,running away from pple,or should i say i get closer from people that always Throw me away,& never be loyal 2me the way i'm being loyal 2 everyone.as a summary,i'm living hopeless,no social life,no nuthing,future seems hard,difficult,& painy 4 me..I never met a person such me,I can't take it anymore.I feel Like 1day I'm Goin 2 explode all the anger the sadness and the pain inside me.
So help me My Friends.Thx in Advance.
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Does he...Or doesn't he?
Posted Tuesday August 19 2008, 3:56 am
Okay... Iv'e been in a relationship now for almost a year, and i love my boyfriend so much, but i have a problem. everytime i ask him about marriage he laughs at me... he says he wants to marry me and spend the rest of his life with me, so why does he laugh about that???
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Ok, so I met his mom.....
Posted Tuesday August 19 2008, 3:38 am
Ok you guys, it's Brittany AGAIN!!!! I met his mom, she likes me, but his dad isn't too comfortable with me, which makes me wonder if I should contniue this relationship. (reason being, some boys take side of their fathers). Anyways, his father was like getting really mad at some of the answers I gave and you guys said to be myself, and I was. He asked me this 1 question which threw me completely off. "Would you ever leave my son for another girl or boy." As soon as I heard girl my eyes flew open. And no I would never leave him for another boy, but I'm not lez...I think my bf told his dad that I was bi-sexual or something, which really makes me wonder if he's making up bad things about me to his parents...and it really makes me un...
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Does my ex like me again?
Posted Tuesday August 19 2008, 2:44 am
15/f
Ok, so last summer me and this one guy had a thing. He broke up with me on the first day of school. I was always really shy around him, and I guess that's why he dumped me. We haven't really talked that much since. But, before we started talking, [before we went out] [[he was in my dance]] every time i looked at him, he was staring at me. And, a few days ago, we had a performance, and he was there. He was staring at me alot like he used to. But, he's really popular, and I'm sure he's over me, and doesn't like me, but he stares at me like he did. Do you think he likes me? My friends say i should talk to him, but I'm so afraid to. What would i say? Would I text him, talk over myspace, or in person? Thanks in advance :]
p.s....
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Long Distance
Posted Tuesday August 19 2008, 12:19 am
17/f
so there's this guy that i met at a camp about a month ago, but he lives almost 2000 miles away. Because of money, we wouldnt be able to visit each other ever, so I decided we couldnt have a real relationship.
The problem is, we still talk on the phone almost every night for several hours. I enjoy his company and all, but I cant continue this because I just wont have the time. But hes homeschooled, so he has absolutely no experience in the love department. Hes become very attached, and i dont want to hurt him because i still like him, we just couldnt work out.
How do I slowly detach myself without hurting his feelings or totally losing contact?
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Hes 45, married, with kids!! And Im 18!!
Posted Monday August 18 2008, 11:52 pm
Okay, so theres this guy and his name is Dan. Hes 45 years old, married, with kids, and I went to canobie with him, my uncle, and my cousins. And the only reason I was there was because one of my cousins is autistic and I was going to help. So right when I get there Dan comes up and puts his arm around me and just starts walking with me, and I was like what the heck? But I didnt say anything cause Im too shy. (Im 18 by the way) and we get to the first ride were going to go on and everyone kinda split up and went there own way and I was trying to figure out who to sit next to when he whispers in my ear, sit next to me in the back, and ofcourse, I was like uhm okay, even though I felt weird about that. But I did and it was fine, until I...
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I was telling my bf something important...
Posted Monday August 18 2008, 11:27 pm
and he fell asleep. I was texting him and he didnt text back. It was about something really important to. I mean normally I dont care at all, but I was pretty much telling him something that ment alot to me and he just fell asleep and didnt text me back. Is it stupid that it hurt? And is it stupid I'm kinda pissed off? Normally I wouldnt care, but....I dunno....I've been having a rough day...and it just sucks....but thanks in advance!
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My friend and I both like this guy, and he only likes me back.
Posted Monday August 18 2008, 10:07 pm
So, my friend's name is Rhianna and the boy we like is Elliott. We're all 13. I've liked Elliott for a long time, and Rhianna met him once and fell for him. He awful nice. I know this being a friend to him for about a year or so. He wouldn't want us going out to corrupt Rhianna and I's friendship. My problem is Rhianna doesn't know Elliott likes me. She doesn't even know I like him back. She has a lot of relationship problems so I'm very careful with her love life, and try to help her as much as possible. As far as I know right now she doesn't want to date. I know it's wrong to do it behind her back, if I were to, so how do I tell her? Gently!
Something like this happened before. Her boyfriend Kyle dumped her for me, and I, ...
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first move
Posted Monday August 18 2008, 8:48 pm
I like this guy and i'm not sure if he likes me, we have "talked" before but i was wondering if i should start flirting with him first or wait till he does it. I mean today he hugged me but he does that to a lot of girls and not just me so i don't think it would be considered flirting. What should i do? Thanks!
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I want a promise (purity) ring... can it be any ring?
Posted Monday August 18 2008, 8:06 pm
I really want a purity ring (I've always had the beliefs to abstain from all sexual activity until marriage, I just think that a ring would be a cool reminder) but I don't want to ask my parents to get me one because they'd make a big deal about it ("You're 15 and thinking about having sex?!?" Yeah, they're pretty retarded).
I have plain rings at home, if I attach a significance to it and wear it constantly, can I consider it a purity ring? And/or where can I get purity rings for a good price (not online)?
Thanks so much <3
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confused
Posted Monday August 18 2008, 7:30 pm
15/f
I like this guy in my class and he liked me over the summer but i'm not sure if he does now. Anyways, my friend kaysy always talks to him and he talks to her a lot but he talks to a lot of girls because he has a lot of friends that are girls. She on the other hand always talks to him and says " Me and him are such good friends, i just love him to death, he is just like a bro to me. " I know she would never do anything like go out with him or anything because she is my really good friend and she even says we would be cute together, etc. But it seems like she is flirting a lot. Idk if it is just her personality like that or not but i can't confront her about it because when i did she said "oh, i'm not flirting, i kn...
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how to flirt
Posted Monday August 18 2008, 7:01 pm
14/f ok so im tired of always being akward around guys especially ones that i like so i need flirting tips... thanks muddymidfielder
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Friends With Benefits or More?
Posted Monday August 18 2008, 5:56 pm
I'll give you guys some background on the situtation.
So since the beginning of May I've really liked this guy and we started talking and we flirted and hung out all the time, but it never went further than that. Than in the beginning of June he started dating a girl I thought was my friend. But he was hoenst about it and I was fine and started talking to other boys.
So while they were dating he'd call me and hang out with me. And than one time we were at the mall and he kept finding excuses to touch me and I thought it was EXTREMELY AWKWARD, I mean he has a girlfriend.
So he broke up with her a little bit later and I told him I liked him and he said he needed to think, this was beginning of July...
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