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too attached! hellpp pleassee
hi, I am 16 the guy I was seeing is 20 he is a really good guy and just don't judge I need advice... anyway, we talked for like 3 months everyday, anyway like 2 weeks ago he seemed very distant and he seemed really short with me so I asked him what was wrong what am I doing wrong and he said " I just don't have the feelings for you anymore babe we can still be friends" I asked him why I didn't understand and he said that I was too attached too quick. I need to know how can I show him that I have changed and how do I change and how do I get him back ever since he told me that I have been really depressed and stuff, I need you guys help!! thank you ahead of time, I rate high
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This happens alot when teenagers date people in their twenties, I'm not saying there is anything wrong with it because if you really care about someone then age doesn't matter, but there is often the problem that the teenager gets really attached really quickly. I think you just need to maybe let him have some space for a while, don't call him or message or anything like that. Show him that you are mature and that you know what 'it's over means.' Then maybe he will realize that he misses you and that you are more mature then he thought you were.
I really wouldn't hold to high of expectations because guys in their twenties usually don't want long term things they still want to play the field, but maybe you guys can hang out and that may lead to something more.
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Honestly, it sounds to me like he was never interested you that much to begin with. You shouldn't change for him; you need to find ways to distract yourself from the hurt you feel. And ultimately, you need to figure a way to get over him. Spend more time with your friends, pick up a hobby, something along those lines will distract you and help you to feel better about yourself and the situation. He's not worth your pain, time, or energy.
I know that probably isn't want you wanted to hear, but it's time you move on; changing for a guy never works out well. You'll lose yourself and be worse off than if you don't have him.
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