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I was telling my bf something important...
and he fell asleep. I was texting him and he didnt text back. It was about something really important to. I mean normally I dont care at all, but I was pretty much telling him something that ment alot to me and he just fell asleep and didnt text me back. Is it stupid that it hurt? And is it stupid I'm kinda pissed off? Normally I wouldnt care, but....I dunno....I've been having a rough day...and it just sucks....but thanks in advance!
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I've had that happen before, BUT I wouldn't get mad at him...
Guys don't take things the same way girls do all the time...
I think the best thing you could do is just maybe say: "Hey, you know it kinda hurt my feelings a little that you fell asleep because it was really, very important to me what I was trying to say. I'm not mad at all, I understand you can't help when you're tired but it seemed like you didn't care..." Or whatever the reason was it upset you that he fell asleep if it isn't that you don't think he cared...
People can never help when they are tired, which I'm sure you understand, but there is nothing wrong with TALKING (not getting mad or yelling) but talking to the person your in a relationship with about how you feel...
If he doesn't except it then that's a bit silly of him... I think it's okay you were bummed about it, as long as you don't hold it over his head or be mean or anything... I don't personally think it's worth a fight or anything but it's understandable, I think, that you'd be a little disappointed if it really was that important.
Being pissed off is okay too, but only for a little while, and try to cool off before saying anything to him. =)
Hope this helps a little, and if not I hope someone else on here can help you more. =) Good luck! =)
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Aww hun, calm down. :]
It's no big deal. I'm sure he didn't do it on purpose. My guy does that to me all the time, and yeah.. it's annoying. But guys need their sleep, you'll learn this. I know it sucks cause it was important, but tomorrow's another day. Don't sweat it. :]
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