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Does he...Or doesn't he?
Okay... Iv'e been in a relationship now for almost a year, and i love my boyfriend so much, but i have a problem. everytime i ask him about marriage he laughs at me... he says he wants to marry me and spend the rest of his life with me, so why does he laugh about that???
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It may be too soon for the "marriage talk".
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A year isnt that much, and you sound young enough that you really shouldn't be thinking about marriage beyond a "its a mutual goal down the line" kinda way.
I'm 23. Been with her for 3.5 years. Marriage is STILL a "sometime in the future we want to" thing. No way in hell we're ready for that commitment yet.
He laughs because it makes him uncomfy. Just because he likes the idea someday doesnt mean he thinks its a good idea now.
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well maybe he's nervous about the marriage. you know guys have a funny way of showing how they react to something that is as big as marriage. but I'm sure he does love you but marriage is a big thing. give him time to think about it. and you should too. if you rush into the engagement or wedding then you'll regret it. but just give yourself and your boyfriend some time to think. just ask yourself "am I ready to get married and start a family?" .or do whatever you wanna do. good luck and I hoped I help=]
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Hmm..there could be many reasons. How old are you all?! I don't think it is because he doesn't want to or because he doesn't love you. It could even be his way of not showing that he's nervous about that thought. It's not easy for guys to think about the long term (or admit they are). Give him time. Don't hold it against him, because I'm sure he loves you.
<3 Leslie
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