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I don't know what to do with Myself Anymore.
I'm Nakhle From Lebanon.I'm always sad,always sitting on the Internet doing nuthin but eating,chatting and surfing the net.I Feel Like This world doesn't react with me.My problem is That i never had a true life,I'm so empty,running away from pple,or should i say i get closer from people that always Throw me away,& never be loyal 2me the way i'm being loyal 2 everyone.as a summary,i'm living hopeless,no social life,no nuthing,future seems hard,difficult,& painy 4 me..I never met a person such me,I can't take it anymore.I feel Like 1day I'm Goin 2 explode all the anger the sadness and the pain inside me.
So help me My Friends.Thx in Advance.
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Hi Nakhle,
I feel like that too sometimes. The first thing you need to do is get off the computer!! Little things like sitting outside will make a big difference. Go to the park, library, or take a walk. Exercise is a very good way to make yourself feel better. Joining a club, sport, or volunteering is a good way of meeting new people.
You won't meet other people like yourself if you don't get out. Don't be afraid to go somewhere new. It will bring adventure to your life.
Take care!
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Doing nothing but sitting around eating and playing on the computer...that is depressing. Your problem is circular...the more depressed you are the more you withdraw from the real world into computer land and that in turn makes you more depressed. When what you are doing is no longer working for you, then it is time to try something else. We all need to connect with others to feel good about ourselves and to belong. Maybe you should let yourself vent some of that anger in a safe environment to do so. We all walk into dark places, but even when you cannot see the light to guide you out, there is hope. The light that you really need is inside of you. Let it lead you into your new journey. Go to a library, a park, anywhere that you might connect with real people and talk. Don't ever give up on people or yourself. Make new friends without burdening yourself with too many expectations. Just be.
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I kinda know how you feel. I relate little bit. but you can volenteer somewher. I did that. I was volenteering at a daycare and I got me a job babysitting. sometiems you do something then can lead you somewhere else. don't give up. god hase great plans for you. try do some different hobbies find you are good at and like to do. Like craft making make for christmass or maybe make bead jeweries for fun, maybe do some babysitting around your area and find a socail group at church you go to.. hope i Help..
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well trust me im sure there are thousands of people that can relate to you, maybe you dont even know because there trying to hide that. try to reach out to people, not just one social clique but everyone. Be friendly, part of the problem is if you just give up nothing will happen. try to make friends, study, as for help for help from teachers on work, then it should go well from there. trust me if you just give up on yourself nothing will come easy, and it will make you feel nothing but worse on yourself. so try, and know that you are not the only one that feels that way. Because what you just said happend to me like last year or so. i felt alone, all i did was go on the internet and watch tv, my grades wernt the best. I felt alone and didnt have true friends and stuff, i felt like there was a space between my friends and i. but when i reached out to others and tried harder everything went more easy. Now i have pretty close friends, doing well in school, and think il have a bright future.
so dont give up on yourself, good luck
hope i helped =]
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