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Which Guy?
Posted Friday August 29 2008, 1:39 pm
Okkk
So I have a kinda big problemmm
I have been going out with a guy for about 3 months and I love him so muchhh
But...
I am REALLY attracted to a guy that I just met, we just clicked, almost like "love at first sight"
The guy I love is amazing but we have about 2 things in common, literally....I love horses he is dead scared of themmm, he is amazing at sports and I don't really do many of themmm, etc.
But the guy I am attracted to, and like a lot, we have almost everything in common! We have the same disposition and everythinggg! He is amazinggg and we would make a really great coupleee
The worst part is, he admited that he liked me a few days agooo, and I want to make a m...
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dose kissing come naturally?
Posted Thursday August 28 2008, 11:34 pm
14/f i was just wondering if kissing comes naturally because i havent kissed a guy b4 and im pretty nervous about it...also if you have any kissing tips that would be great thanks =) muddymidfielder
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boyfriend wants a break
Posted Thursday August 28 2008, 10:50 pm
Me and my current boyfriend have been going out for 4 months now, ever since our prom night. Beofre that, me and him have been best friends for 4 years, since grade 9 all the way to the end of highschool. This summer, between university and highschool, I had gone out of this country for vacation for a month and a half. Before leaving, my boyfriend was being the usual guy that i fell in love with. He said he would miss me a lot and everyhitng. When i came back a week ago, he had gotten a job with very long hours. We barely talked for half an hour every night which is very little in comparison to the long hours we would talk before this summer. A few nights ago, we got in a fight about how little we have to say to each other n i said "i ...
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Cute girl...
Posted Thursday August 28 2008, 8:52 pm
Hi, I'm 16/m I just started at a new school. There is a girl in my Hist. Class that is insanely gorgeous. Like, you don't even know. Crazy gorgeous. Anyway, I don't really know her yet. I'd like to get to know her though. How can I break the ice? And don't tell me to just go up to her and tell her I like her. I know girls like confidence, but you have to at least know them A LITTLE before you start telling them that. So... help?
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What it right to do this? -longer than normal-
Posted Thursday August 28 2008, 8:28 pm
My ex broke up with me and so I was upset and decided to just "live on." For the past 2-3 weeks he has been harassing my best friend. Before I sent a message saying "just stop, there is nothing let to say," he was sending me messages that said " you're immature, move one...blah blah blah." I never responded as he continued to blow up my phone. I figured it wasn't worth it. He dumped me out of the blue with no real explanation.
So as he still harasses my friend to this day.....I ran into him at Wal-Mart because he works there. I decided to wear a hoodie because I knew what his hours were and I didn't want to get caught up in it. I left my purse in the car under the seat so he wouldn't recognize i...
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idk
Posted Thursday August 28 2008, 7:22 pm
I've been on and off with this kid for over a year and right now i guess were "together" but anyways, me being really curious and in a way physoctic ,went onto his facebook, like hacked in. I read his inbox and like wall to wall with girls and he acts like hes single and talks dirty to them and it got me soo upset. Like one wall to wall with a girl was like bring a friend, (basically for him)? We go to different schools and barely see eachother so as far as i know he could be living a whole different life, trying to hit on girls and stuff. The problem is i cant confront him and tell him because he'd know and i know what him to find out i hacked in. Anyways i dont know what to do? ahh!
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I like a reallyyyy cute guy! What can i do?
Posted Thursday August 28 2008, 5:18 pm
Ok, im 17 years old and a female and this one boy thats in my first period class is like the cutest guy that i have ever seen. We haven't ever talked to each other but i have a mojor crush on him for like that longest time. I really want to know how i can tell if he likes me. We're both seniors and i want to go out with him this year and real soon. i feel like im in love with him and im not quite sure but i think i saw him looking at me today and when i looked at him he moved his eyes away fast but im not sure it that means he likes me. we live by each other for about 3-4 years now. please help me real soon so that i know what to do and i dont wanna go up to him and talk to him because im like really shy especially around guys that i like, like him. thanks
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kissing..wrong?
Posted Thursday August 28 2008, 4:30 pm
im soo embarrassed asking this considering how old i am but personally i think i kiss pretty well.All the other guys ive kissed (without being too graphic) when i kiss them our tongues kinda went with the flow like they never fully went totally inside my mouth like it wasent too much tongue you know? and well my ex boyfriend and i are kinda seeing each other again and he was the only one where our kisses were like all about tongue and he like shoves it in my mouth.It's not too forcely but its like all up in my mouth you know what i mean? lol I get totally confused because his tongue just going back and forth which causes me to go back and forth.I then start to back away because it feels weird.I dont know what to do because our tongues arent...
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dont know what to do
Posted Thursday August 28 2008, 3:43 pm
13/f
I kinda have a moustache and i like this guy and i think he likes me but whenever he gets close to me to talk or whatever, i don't like him looking at me because of that. I don't want him to see it because he might not like me or want to go out with me and i can't bleach it or anything. I have no confidence. What do i do?
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confused.
Posted Thursday August 28 2008, 3:38 pm
Well, i like this guy a lot in my class. One of my friends said that he liked me but she didn't tell me until today. She said that she found out a week ago. He is a big flirt and he hugs a lot of girls (including me) and has a lot of girls that are his friends. That dosen't bother me but i'm not sure if he flirts with me. Actually, i don't know if he does or not. If he does, it's not like he overly does it, i mean he sits by me in class and hugs me. I can't tell if he likes me but all my friends say they can tell big time. I don't know what to do. I can't tell. I text him but we don't talk on the phone. Do you think he might of changed his mind? It's been a week and i can't tell. He usually hugs me everyday but sometimes he dosen't. What should i do? Or expect?
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Year long fling or year long wasted time?
Posted Thursday August 28 2008, 11:11 am
So it started last year, I was introduce to this guy named MP, and well it started off nice we would text back and forth and wouldnt stop, well he asked my out, and well we went out for about a week, but the thing is that at school he didnt come up to me at school or talk to me at all, like he is so enexperience, he really never had a girlfriend and well i have had many boyfriends in the past, so i broke it off, and well over the time we would talk occasionly, im really good friends with his sister, and i talk to her but not about him, bc he doesnt talk to her about girls. so i really want to ask her about MP< but idk.... well anyways this year has started and were talking i think again, like in june i was his first real kiss, so i dont ...
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So, there are these two girls...
Posted Thursday August 28 2008, 6:08 am
So, I've been dating this girl for a while now. She's really great. I love her and care about her and everything, but I have feelings for this other girl. This other girl is out of this world. We'll call my girlfriend J and the girl I like L ok? ok. Well L knows I like her, and L really likes me. I never see L though. But I get so happy when I talk to her. J pisses me off a lot of the time. We fight over everything. We tried taking a break, but it didn't work out. We missed each other. I care about J, but I have these strong feelings for L also. I don't know what to do. I can't bring myself to end the relationship because I don't want to lose J. J has become one of my best friends, and I don't want to lose that. At the same time, these feel...
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unhealthy boy obsession
Posted Thursday August 28 2008, 1:01 am
I've been obsessed with this guy since February of last year. We hit it off at my school's valentine's dance, and "dated" for maybe a week after that. I was so nuts about this guy, I couldn't make speech when he talked to me. He could come over and ask "what's up?" and my only response would be "I dunno." That was one of the big reasons he broke up with me. I don't know if I've been obsessed because the relationship didn't really happen despite the fact that I wanted it to, or because there was no closure to whatever did happen. Since the breakup, I was able to have a relationship with another guy (which lasted 9 months), but I was still distracted by the other guy.
My real question is: Is ...
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what do i do?!
Posted Wednesday August 27 2008, 11:52 pm
this is soooo long sorry haha....ok so this guy and me have been best friends for like a yearish. we seriously like besties for reals he is the only person who knows EVERYTHING about me and same with me about him. he broke up with his girlfriend at the begining of the summer and the first time we hung out while he was single this summer(i was grounded for a long time) we were out at like 3 and ended up getting pulled over and i got in trouble for breaking city curfew but he is 18 so he was good to go. we hung out a couple weeks later, my mom had kicked me out of the house and he rescued me and we went the movies twice that day haha and made out like hard core. im not allowed to see him anymore cuz my parents found out that he's been in trou...
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kissing
Posted Wednesday August 27 2008, 9:25 pm
I am 18 years old and I just had my first kiss a few days ago. It was kind of awkward and didn't go as well as I would have liked. He could tell I was nervous and still am, so he hasn't kissed me again since, but I know he wants too. Anyway, I am planning on going for it again the next time I see him, does anybody have any tips on how I can make this time better? I'm still really nervous... Thanks :)
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best friend or boyfriend?
Posted Wednesday August 27 2008, 7:47 pm
Okay about 6 months ago this guy really liked me and wanted to be with me... I didn't feel the same. Since then we've become bestfriends. Like he knows everything about me. Now I think I have feelings for him. But he keeps telling me about how he might get back with his ex.. I don't think he sees me as more than a best friend now but i dont really know. And i also don't want to mess up everything with him and his ex that likes him again.
What do i doooooo?
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love?
Posted Wednesday August 27 2008, 4:58 pm
this might sound really stupid but how do you know when your in love? i really really really like my boyfriend but i wouldn't wanna say i love you if i didnt mean it...thing is, we've only been dating for like 3 weeks, for anyone in a relationship how long did it take before you said 'i love you' please dont tell me "you'll know when your in love" cause that doesnt really help...tell me anything about your relationships...thankss.
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ways to tell ur gf u love her
Posted Wednesday August 27 2008, 4:50 pm
i want more ways 2 tell my gf i love her
i cant think of any
please help me :)
thanx
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Overcoming inhibition with my boyfriend
Posted Wednesday August 27 2008, 4:18 pm
Ok so I'm new at the whole boyfriend / girlfriend thing, and I feel like the process of me becoming more comfortable with the more physical (though not sexual) aspect of a relationship is going extremely slowly. I'm okay when my boyfriend initiates hand-holding, hugging, whatever, but for some reason I'm having a really hard time reciprocating - as in initiating anything myself. It would probably be useful to mention that I'm generally not a touchy-feely sort of person, and I tend to have a large personal space bubble. Plus, I'm kind of shy, so I think I've developed a sort of avoidance mentality where I often purposely try to avoid contact/interaction with people (yes, I probably act a bit anti-social at times, but I'm not a recluse or sno...
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when to break it off...
Posted Wednesday August 27 2008, 1:02 pm
I have had way too many boyfriends to count. It's my problem too. Boys like me, and I like boys... but as soon as we start dating its like I pick out all their imperfections without meaning to. I'm now with my 12th or 13th boyfriend. He's really nice, but he never calls me or asks me out places, and when I call him or I invite him places, we never have anything ot talk about. He's kind of boring... I hate breaking it off with guys when they didnt do anything wrong. Is it my fault for wanting a certain type? Should I stay with him and see if things get better?
Thanks
Elise 15/f
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