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kissing..wrong?
im soo embarrassed asking this considering how old i am but personally i think i kiss pretty well.All the other guys ive kissed (without being too graphic) when i kiss them our tongues kinda went with the flow like they never fully went totally inside my mouth like it wasent too much tongue you know? and well my ex boyfriend and i are kinda seeing each other again and he was the only one where our kisses were like all about tongue and he like shoves it in my mouth.It's not too forcely but its like all up in my mouth you know what i mean? lol I get totally confused because his tongue just going back and forth which causes me to go back and forth.I then start to back away because it feels weird.I dont know what to do because our tongues arent really i guess you could say "insync"? so it causes me too stop kissing him and laugh it off and smile because it's the most awkward feeling im not sure if its me or him but he's the only one that im like that with.I dont want to tell him that it's weird for me because i dont want to hurt him.He tells me when we kiss that it's great,i mean it's good but everytime the tongue comes into play i dont know what to do its like a totally different kiss for me.So im wondering am i the only one? do i kiss wrong? i tried looking this up online but nothing seems to anwer my question,how can i make my kisses with him better? like how do i tame his tongue? or is it me that's the problem? lol i really need some help on this one,thanks so much :D
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the other answer works as well or if you want to avoid talking to him about it all together play it off...
tell him Do you want to play a game? if he says yes you tell him alright no matter what i do to you you cant move at all anything if you do its over I MEAN IT NOTHING CAN MOVE UNLESS I MOVE IT!
then kiss him how you would want to be kissed
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Alrighty, I just had my first kiss not too long ago but with no advice [[Done it more than just once so trust me]] but here is what I'm going to tell you. I developed a strategy.
Obviously he kisses different but I don't believe there IS a right way to it. Everyone is different. There are only pointers to a kiss. No one can actually write a guide about it so don't worry. It isn't you.
Here's my suggestions. He likes to lead I take it just from what you've said. Just let him take the role for a little bit until he starts to not be so "dominant" let's say.
Compare kissing to talking. When one talks the other listens but they need each other to allow it be classified as "talking." He's the person talking and you're the person listening. Pretend he is pouring his heart out to you and that is how he does it. With his tongue. He maybe press against yours more often but everyone is different.
I was told that I am different depending on my mood and day. If I'm in a really good mood, I'm more dominant. If I'm in a more content, relaxed mood, I let the guy do most of the work.
I guess I'm just trying to say everyone is different. Like some like less tongue some like it more. Some like to be dominant all of the time, some don't, and some it depends on their mood. All depends with you personally. But if you want to change the pace up a bit **you need to close your mouth more or use your tongue more.**
Wow I've never given advice about kissing so excuse me. But it isn't you. You just have a certain or ideal way of kissing.
I hope this helps.
-KD/f/15
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