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Gender: Female
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Yahoo: darkdreamer82704
Member Since: August 5, 2008
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Last Update: August 29, 2008
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im soo embarrassed asking this considering how old i am but personally i think i kiss pretty well.All the other guys ive kissed (without being too graphic) when i kiss them our tongues kinda went with the flow like they never fully went totally inside my mouth like it wasent too much tongue you know? and well my ex boyfriend and i are kinda seeing each other again and he was the only one where our kisses were like all about tongue and he like shoves it in my mouth.It's not too forcely but its like all up in my mouth you know what i mean? lol I get totally confused because his tongue just going back and forth which causes me to go back and forth.I then start to back away because it feels weird.I dont know what to do because our tongues arent really i guess you could say "insync"? so it causes me too stop kissing him and laugh it off and smile because it's the most awkward feeling im not sure if its me or him but he's the only one that im like that with.I dont want to tell him that it's weird for me because i dont want to hurt him.He tells me when we kiss that it's great,i mean it's good but everytime the tongue comes into play i dont know what to do its like a totally different kiss for me.So im wondering am i the only one? do i kiss wrong? i tried looking this up online but nothing seems to anwer my question,how can i make my kisses with him better? like how do i tame his tongue? or is it me that's the problem? lol i really need some help on this one,thanks so much :D (link)
the other answer works as well or if you want to avoid talking to him about it all together play it off...


tell him Do you want to play a game? if he says yes you tell him alright no matter what i do to you you cant move at all anything if you do its over I MEAN IT NOTHING CAN MOVE UNLESS I MOVE IT!

then kiss him how you would want to be kissed


Whats the best way to get rid of static electricity in your hair? Or to stop it happening in the first place? (link)
biosilk or frizzease

any hair salon or shop should have it


okayy so ive been tanning for the past 2 weeks for about 8 minutes and i use a tanning lotion i bought from the salon austalian gold tan accelerator i think? well i havent gotten like any color? just a tiny but not noticeable enouqh for anyone else to see..so any ideas on what to do to actually get darker? and also when your in the tanning bed do you flip like you do when your tanning outside? i heard it tans your arms and legs faster?

thanksss =) (link)
thats an easy one....

dont get an accelerator if your wanting the noticeable tan that will stick get a bronzer steps one and two

first tan use one
second tan use two
third tan use one
fourth use two

and so on and so forth and try to stretch it out to 10 minutes for max results try to atleast go 2 - 3 times a week

and you will be tan b 4 no time


m a guy of 19 ... and my girlfrnd is also af the same age ... a few monthe younger..
we love each other a lot but the thing is that she is my first love but i am not her first love... and i know almost everything bout the kind of relationship she had with the other guy for bout 1 year includind the physical contact which didnt include sexual intercoarse.. its just that he had removed her shirt a couple of times .. if you know wat i mean .. and no oral sex at all
the thing is that i want to marry her in future but am afraid that her past relationship may spoil our relationshp after marriage as i may harrass her for being wid anoher guy before marriage... if u know what i mean... i dont want her to live her life like a living hell even if it means that i have get myself away fm her...
i want to know after marrige cud there facts create some probs as i think that the special attraction kind of fades after marrige and couples may figh on the issues which they cud have overlookes before marriage...
ps. she didnt have any intercoarse..just got her shirt removed.
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Honestly it was in the past before you came along if she didnt go all the way then she has alot of self control and respect for herself and you should show her the same...not saying that you dont but you mentioned that you may harrass her for being with someone else after yall get married right well honestly....i think that it has nothing to do with her but that you need to get yourself to the point that your ok with accepting that that is all that happened and be thankful that it went no further and not sweat the little things that matter the least because it will destroy that that matters most...your love for her and hers for you.

hope that helped a little bit


ok so this is a pretty long question with a few parts, please answer all.

in the beginning of july, i saw an old friend from when i was younger. i'd seen him a few times since but he'd grown a lot this past time. he's become really cute and my mom agrees, she really liked the idea of us possibly getting together. we started talking but my past with guys made it difficult to fully trust him and i got kind of bitchy to him, which i take full responsibility for. now we aren't talking and its been a week since he's talked to me and he just ignores me now, even though i've apologized. this saturday is his graduation party so i'm going to have to see him. how should i react to seeing him when i know he's not as thrilled as i am? how can i possibly make him forgive me more? are there any little ways to get his attention for the few minutes i'll be seeing him? like to flirt while he's trying to ignore me ahah

please help as much as you can! (link)
FIRST THING IS LET GO!!!!!

I have been done so wrong in the past from cheating abuse and losing the life of my child.
One thing that you will have to learn just as i am that you cant dwell on the past or base a new relationship on it because all its going to do it slowly or quickly tear it apart before you can know what kind of great things can come from it.

let him know when you see him at the party walk up to him and ask if you can talk to him pull him aside and tell him that you were sorry that you tripped out on him just that you really do like him and that you have been hurt many times before but that your ready to let all of that go...because you have faith that thats not what his intentions are and that you will return that same kind gesture in return


I was just wondering how old do you have to be to get a belly ring??? I'm planning to get one either when I turn 16 or when I'm close to turning 16 and I was also wondering is it better to get one sooner or later??? (link)
i got mine done when i was 15 i dont think the age is an issue depending on where you live as long as you have your parents/guardians permisson.. it doesnt matter if you get it sooner or later the feeling is the same as with the responsibilities of having one


I met my boyfriend the summer of last year. That summer was one of the best summers of my life. At the time, neither of us had anything going, we were both off from school and both unemployed… but we had each other. He was relaxed then, always made me laugh, and he was so fun to be around… By the time summer was over he had a school schedule, but he made his efforts to see me, and with it only being twice a week, that was good enough for me, cause we still had our long conversations over the phone… But by the time January came along, we started having some fights, he never had time, but I got over those fights, I knew I loved him, so I supported him in everything he did, and he did the same for me… But this summer, it’s like he’s turned into a different person. Our conversations have become dull, even with my efforts of making them fun. I answer the phone, and I get flirty with him, but it’s like he doesn’t even respond to it. When I do actually get lucky enough for him to spend time with me, he never wants to do anything fun, but stay at home, and lay in bed, and watch a movie. He doesn’t touch me much either, unless he wants to have sex, But when we’re out in public, I’m usually the one reaching for his hand, kissing him, or putting my arm around him. When we do have sex, it’s great… the only problem is that, I feel like that’s the only time I actually feel close to him nowadays. That feeling seems to be gone, once the sex is gone.
I still love him very much, but my question is, do you think he’s still in love with me, and is me making an effort to make this work even worth it anymore?
He tells me that he loves me, and when I ask him if he’s sure, he says he is. And he always tells me that he would never lie to me, and so far, he never has. I do trust him, but his actions don’t really express his love anymore. Maybe he truly is just too busy, and I’m just being paranoid? (link)
its every girls nature to worry about these things. Trust me....no matter if its years months weeks or days women worry all the time if they are still the girl that their man wants...you have to be able to put yourslef aside and let him know how you are feeling just like you have written here but make sure he knows that if it is becuase he is busy that you do understand and that you will still be there to support him just the when you feel his touch its like the love has escaped from his grasp. if he does choose to leave then he wasnt the one for you love comes and goes many times especially for women just know that no matter what you will be able to handle everything....

and

ps
this is my advice to myself as well because i was having the same thoughts with my boyfriend.


well july 14th, i went to go visit my dad that i haven't seen in 3 years. i have a step-sister that lives there, and she is 16, i'm 15. well while i was there, me and my sister snuck out alot to hang out with the boys in te neighbrhood. there was this one boy who is 18, he's a sweet kid, i did like him, but my dad told me to stay away from him, of course i don't listen to him. well i gave the guy a handjob, and he fingered me. and he really liked me, i then realized i didn't like him like that. and told him and idk i started liking his best friend. well me and him jjust layed down together and stuff, nothing big. then about a week ago, one night we were going to sneak out and just hang out & talk since i was leaving. well i guess a neighbor saw me, and called my step-mom and said my sister was outside, but described me. and my step-mom asked my sister, and she said i snuck out to see that guy. well my stepmom told his, mom and he got grounded, now both our families think we were doing stuff. & my dad apparently found out about what i did with that other guy, and idk. i am not close to my dad, but i want to be, but since he doesn't trust me anymore, i know i wont be able to be. how do i get his trust back?=/ (link)
sit your dad down and tell him that no matter how hard life gets or how much he wants to protect you forever that he cant you have to grow up and the more he does try to control it the more it will push you away. Your a kid your going to make mistakes it happens.. he will trust you again i promise i have dont plenty in my life to both lose and earn it back ... sit him down and reassure him that no matter what you will be his little girl and about the guy...girl LIE lol.....tell you dad that ya you did stuff with that other guy that you later regretted and then be like but there is something different about this guy like he knows about what i did with the other guy but dont care we havent done anything and dont plan on doing anything i like him he likes me were hanging out getting to know each other


how much is it for a month of unlimited tanning? (link)
idk where you live but if you go to a darque tan in your area you can get two weeks for free and then i pay 25 a month for a VIP membership


How common is pregnancy through fingering when a penis has cum on it and has bee/may have been touched? (link)
unlikely very unlikely like 1 in billions there are alot of i suppose you would call "obstacles" for sperm to overcome to get to the egg to fert. i dont think that by fingering sweet


I know this migth sound a little wierd but i have a friend (girl) and she said that she is ready to lose her virginity.... so she ask if guys liked girl that dont shave their pubic hair because she didnt want 2 be embarrased by the boy i didnt know how to answer her and i couldnt give her an answer..... can you guys give me one???????? PLZ HElp....
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jealousyxo is right it really all depends on the guy but with my age and variety of friends the most popular vote is to be clean shaved at least for the first time. come on now though think about it would you be happy with "bush" no hair no where




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