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get my dad's trust back..
well july 14th, i went to go visit my dad that i haven't seen in 3 years. i have a step-sister that lives there, and she is 16, i'm 15. well while i was there, me and my sister snuck out alot to hang out with the boys in te neighbrhood. there was this one boy who is 18, he's a sweet kid, i did like him, but my dad told me to stay away from him, of course i don't listen to him. well i gave the guy a handjob, and he fingered me. and he really liked me, i then realized i didn't like him like that. and told him and idk i started liking his best friend. well me and him jjust layed down together and stuff, nothing big. then about a week ago, one night we were going to sneak out and just hang out & talk since i was leaving. well i guess a neighbor saw me, and called my step-mom and said my sister was outside, but described me. and my step-mom asked my sister, and she said i snuck out to see that guy. well my stepmom told his, mom and he got grounded, now both our families think we were doing stuff. & my dad apparently found out about what i did with that other guy, and idk. i am not close to my dad, but i want to be, but since he doesn't trust me anymore, i know i wont be able to be. how do i get his trust back?=/
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I agree with the other answer.
Just sitting your dad down and talking with him could get his trust back. But also listen. Moms and dads often do things and tell us not to do things for sometimes good reasons. Since he hasn't seen you in 3 years, you need to reassure him that you're a young woman now. Not 13 anymore.
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stargirl
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sit your dad down and tell him that no matter how hard life gets or how much he wants to protect you forever that he cant you have to grow up and the more he does try to control it the more it will push you away. Your a kid your going to make mistakes it happens.. he will trust you again i promise i have dont plenty in my life to both lose and earn it back ... sit him down and reassure him that no matter what you will be his little girl and about the guy...girl LIE lol.....tell you dad that ya you did stuff with that other guy that you later regretted and then be like but there is something different about this guy like he knows about what i did with the other guy but dont care we havent done anything and dont plan on doing anything i like him he likes me were hanging out getting to know each other
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