I've been on and off with this kid for over a year and right now i guess were "together" but anyways, me being really curious and in a way physoctic ,went onto his facebook, like hacked in. I read his inbox and like wall to wall with girls and he acts like hes single and talks dirty to them and it got me soo upset. Like one wall to wall with a girl was like bring a friend, (basically for him)? We go to different schools and barely see eachother so as far as i know he could be living a whole different life, trying to hit on girls and stuff. The problem is i cant confront him and tell him because he'd know and i know what him to find out i hacked in. Anyways i dont know what to do? ahh!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? elw5039 answered Friday August 29 2008, 1:27 pm: This actually happened to me before. I was with a guy for a year and I didnt even know he had an email until I saw it on one of his papers for school one day. So i went and hacked into it and there was a bunch of emails from girls talkin about dirty stuff, just like your boyfriend. I came right out with it to him and told him I hacked into it and said what I had to say about. Of course he tried denying it but theres not much he could deny. But thats what I did and that would be my advice to you. Tell him u know and saw it all and see what he has to say for himself. Good luck. [ elw5039's advice column | Ask elw5039 A Question ]
HeartedASHollow answered Friday August 29 2008, 2:38 am: Well if you want, because he is abusing the trust you have given to him. I would beat him to the chase of breaking up. It doesn't seem like he truly means something to you and he obviously isn't worth all of the trouble. He has sadly, un-admittedly [[ can't think of right word]]decided so about you.
But During that point in time where you would break up with him I would drop a hint letting him know that you knew about the girls. And you wouldn't even HAVE to tell him how you know. Just like guys, girls talk about "slutty" guys and judge them. He doesn't deserve an explanation anyways. All you would have to do, is walk away and let him try and decipher it.
But my advice, next time if you get to a point where you have to hack into your boyfriend's account because you're not sure you CAN trust him. That should tell you something.
0xymoron answered Friday August 29 2008, 1:47 am: Well, if he is cheating on you, which he obviously is, then you should break up with him immediately, and if you're going to break up with him anyway, who cares if he knows you hacked into his myspace? [ 0xymoron's advice column | Ask 0xymoron A Question ]
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