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unhealthy boy obsession
I've been obsessed with this guy since February of last year. We hit it off at my school's valentine's dance, and "dated" for maybe a week after that. I was so nuts about this guy, I couldn't make speech when he talked to me. He could come over and ask "what's up?" and my only response would be "I dunno." That was one of the big reasons he broke up with me. I don't know if I've been obsessed because the relationship didn't really happen despite the fact that I wanted it to, or because there was no closure to whatever did happen. Since the breakup, I was able to have a relationship with another guy (which lasted 9 months), but I was still distracted by the other guy.
My real question is: Is there a way for me to get over this guy??
Note: I've tried talking to him, but he's not very responsive. I'm also about 80% sure he likes another girl.
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I have had something similar about that happen to me. This guy was in my life for 9 months, but 2 years total. All I wanted to do was love and care for him. He broke my heart and we never even went out. He was like an opposite for me. Someone I thought I could have. Someone I thought would make me happy and forget all of my pain.
Anyways when I did find a boyfriend recently, I could never stop thinking about him. When I would hug my ex, I saw another person. I also thought before hand, if I had went out with my ex [[which wasn't my ex at the time]] I would forget about the boy, Elliot.
But I never did. But the real reasons is to why is because
1. I never tried to love someone so much as I loved him. He was a child to me to take care of before anything else [[in a non-creepy way]]
2. He was my first love that last a very long time. He gave me something no had before. Hope.
But sometimes when you care about someone a lot but you don't really see them, you often think of what they'd be doing and then at the same time what you'd be doing.
It's like creating a complete story to satisfy what you need. Then there's that point in time where you eventually see him and you don't know what to say. It could be because you're shy or whatever. Maybe it was only good for you went you weren't around him so you could fantasize about him.
But anywho. You need to find someway to let go, it looks like he has. It maybe very hard. It might even feel impossible. But if you want to be able to move on and not let the image of a boy who has, keep you stuck, then you need to work on knowing "he's only in the past."
I hoped this helped somehow.
-KD/f/15
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K well get into another relationship and dont think about this guy focus on the guy your dating do a lot of romantic things with your new guy and that will make you forget bout this other guy just think about the things you dnt like about this guy have your friends tell you things about him you knoe will make u hate him do watever it takes to make yourself hate him.
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