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should i stay or should i go?
Posted Friday September 12 2008, 1:21 pm
This might be kinda long..
I have been with my boyfriend for about a year and ahalf now. hes 28. im having a really diffuclt problem trying to deal with how many people has has slept with. (i was never really attracted to anybody untill him.. so i just dont understand). i realize now i kinda messed up by sleeping with him even though it was my idea and i figured me understandign and working everything out would take time. I really do want to work things out but there are a few problems. one. he does not live in my state, he is just away right now and hes planning to move back permenently, mainly for me and for better jobs. two. all the people he has had sex with, i feel like i have to share him with them. he seems to find any...
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Should i ignore it?
Posted Friday September 12 2008, 1:10 pm
Okay there is this guy who im reallly like talking to but the thing is one of my friend like him as well bu the thing is that Im the he calls after the football games, and after school, he walks me to class and hang out before periods. well i put his number on my cheek at a football game and well the other gurl that likes him is one of the trainers and im a cheerleader but the thing is that she saw me with his number in my cheeck and she didnt like it. well my point is we have different lunches so when i go to my 4th period class he walks her to the same class i have with her. well it reallly bugs me even through he talks to me more. should i worry about it. should i do anything about it?
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More than friends but need More
Posted Friday September 12 2008, 10:31 am
I have a girl and we've always been more than friends but never actually have made it official that we were dating but now im at the point were i need to know that she is my girl friend and that were not just messing around with each other and am not sure how to go about it.
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How do i spice up our relationship?
Posted Friday September 12 2008, 8:12 am
15/f
so i have a boyfirend that i've been going out with for three weeks now. And lately things have gotten alittle less exciting between us two. i can't date so it's not like we can see eacother alot. during school days we spend like 15 mins before school starts half an hour at lunch and ten mins after school. we talk on the phone for like a few hours @ night but thats basically our day. I wanna know what i can do to "spice" up our relationship. I mean he's such a great guy,he's the starting quarterback, he's smart and funny, he's so handsome too :]. i would hate to lose him...
Please help me out! thank you :D
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Is it an STD?
Posted Friday September 12 2008, 8:08 am
I'm a virgin. I've been proud of that my entire life, since I just entered my early 20's. It feels good to know I have pride in something. But-- It doesn't mean I've been completely prude.
Before my current boyfriend, I'd "hooked up" with one other guy, who I'd been with for 3 years. My new boyfriend and I are doing really great-- but I keep accusing him of giving me STD's, and going on and on about it until he freaks out. But, oral sex is still sex... And I could still catch something.
My vagina had some itching-burning going on.. so before getting it checked out.. I blamed him. Then, after a visit to the gyno.. turned out to be a yeast infection.
The other day, I reached to the back ...
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Nervous About Dating
Posted Friday September 12 2008, 12:43 am
well there is this guy that i like and he really likes me. he just dumped his girlfriend (they were only casual--like a month a half?) and so hes going to wait a couple weeks but then hes going to ask me out and i just dont know if i should say yes or not. im afraid to get hurt again because this spring i had a truly terrible breakup. but i told him my deepest secret and he totally understood! so i feel much closer to him and like i can really trust him. i just started at a new school (tho i met him this summer) and moved here in june so i wasnt going to date anyone for a while but he is really nice and like a lot of things that i would want in a relationship. he says im the girl hes liked the most and he thinks hes ready for a long term re...
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i've had enough
Posted Thursday September 11 2008, 10:26 pm
k ive been in a long ditance relationship for 1 year and i really love my boyfriend. but lately he's been working and sometimes he's had alot of homework that we don't even talk at all. and it feels like i don't even have a boyfriend any more. please help me deal with this. all i want is more time with him. i'm not old enough to fly and see him any time i want. i really miss him and i don't want to break up with him that's not an option so dont suggest it. how do i tell my boyfriend this so he understands better. how do i explain to him that it's either his job or me. please help me.
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ehh age difference :/
Posted Thursday September 11 2008, 10:23 pm
I am a sophomore in highschool and I am sort of in a relationship with a 22 year old. Do you think this is strange or perfectly fine? Any advice/comments are appreciated :]
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Teen Relationship issues
Posted Thursday September 11 2008, 9:22 pm
I'm a 16 year old male, who is currently in a relationship. My current "girlfriend" is going to a different school than me, and we haven't spoken even over the phone for almost two weeks. I'm getting fed up with this. As I feel like I'm being brushed off when I do make the effort to call, either she's busy or her brother says she isn't there... but it's her cell phone so I don't really get that. Well I'm just wondering if I should break it off and move on to whatever else life has in store or if I should just stick it out for a bit to see what happens with us. We've only been going out for two weeks prior to the lack of communication.
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Oh I love him!!!
Posted Thursday September 11 2008, 8:01 pm
ok so i like this guy and we are like already friends and stuff and we talk on the regular but i want to be more then friends... like i notice that he's always looking at me in class then when i look at him like he makes these cute little funny faces at me. and like we both have the same favorite candy... but i want to make this relationship go faster i want to be his girl friend? do yu have any sighs he might give me to tell me he likes me to and what can i do to show him i like him without actully telling him? please help me!!!!!!
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should i let him?
Posted Thursday September 11 2008, 7:47 pm
my best friends ex wants to go down on me and my best friend knows but she dont care cause she is with someone else but the thing is i really have a hard time not getting attached to a guy once we get sexual in anyway so im kinda scared to let him although it feels so good and its hard for me to say no and the only reason we havent done it yet is cause we only talked over the phone about it but he wants to do it next time we see each other im scared that he will think im clingy or psycho or something if i get to close to him you know!! help please!!!
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Posted Thursday September 11 2008, 4:39 pm
im 17, theres this guy i realy like ive known him for nearly a year from school, i was out with my mate and i got chatting and that got his number and i didnt like him at the start but we i thought about it then i realy did like him, i was too clingy texting him 24/7 as i didnt want any1 else to have him i told him how i felt and i asked him out i tottaly embairssed myself because he said no i just thought he liked me too because of the nices texts i was getting back and he always reapyed, stuff got around we didnt speak for ages my best m8 said to me she wanted him so i thought well she will get with her but later on he told me he wouldnt and we sorted it , but ive never got him out of my head i cant get with any1, when im not with him i r...
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My friend and my crush
Posted Thursday September 11 2008, 3:55 pm
16/f
The guy i have liked for about 4 months now (and we "talked" a week over the summer), well like i was saying, i really like him. He is really cute but he has a really nice personality to go with it to. He is a big flirt with girls but he isn't a player. When he has a girlfriend, he dosen't flirt with other girls. Anyways, well my best friend has a flirty personality. They both are like that. Well when they are around eachother, it seems like they flirt. A bunch of people think this, it's not just me. Whenever i confronted her about it, she was like "No! I don't like him like that, i consider him as my brother, he is my best guy friend!!" Well, he tells her everything since they are "best friends." E...
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age issue?
Posted Thursday September 11 2008, 3:23 pm
well, there's this guy i have feelings for, and i'm almost positive he likes me but that's not the problem. the problem is i'm a sophomore and he's a freshmen, and i know age shouldn't matter and all, but i get this weird feeling whenever i think about the grade difference. people at my school are really judgemental, and i don't usually care what people think of me, but this issue is eating at my nerves. is there a problem with dating a freshmen, or should i just not date him? or do you have any other advice? thanks in advance.
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ugh. helppp. im hurtingg.
Posted Thursday September 11 2008, 2:10 pm
17/f okay so recently my bf broke up woth me because i cheated on him a few times. i know what i did was bad. i get it. i learned my lesson because i lost someone i truly care about. my problem is i just dont know how to sayy no. my bf lived 2 hours away and i didnt get to see him very often. and he SAID that once i get my life together we can get back but i dunno. im sooo hurt and he doesnt talk to me anymore. anyways i am trying to get my life back on track but theres a little problem. my best friend is a guy who also knows my boyfriend. they live by eachother, and recently he told me he really likes me. and i dunno. i mean i know im not going to cheat again that isnt the problem. the problem is i kow my ex would never get back woth me if...
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The guy I want
Posted Thursday September 11 2008, 1:44 pm
Ok, this is really long but if you answer this you will help me get my smile back.
I broke up with my boyfriend 'A' of 2 years. Things were'nt working out between us,. However we continue to be friends.
The thing is, immediately after the break up I fell for his friend 'D'. They're friends but not that great. It's not that it was sudden. I had liked him for almost six months but always tried to convince my self that it was just infatuation.
But now I realise its way more than that. Way more than even liking him. Its more like Im in love (yes, LOVE) with him. Its not that he hasn't shown any signs. You know the way he looks at me. Its not like normal looking its the kind as if he wants to just hold me. Ev...
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Dating or Not
Posted Thursday September 11 2008, 10:16 am
Me and this girl have been seeing each other for awhile but i dont know if were dating or just fooling around i asked her about it once and she said we would take it slow but its been a couple weeks and now were pretty hot and heavy but im still not sure. and when shes at work i've heard her say that she was single but im not sure if she's only saying it cause she works at a bar and gets better tips that way.
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please help me:'(
Posted Thursday September 11 2008, 3:17 am
me and my guy have been in a serious(long distance) relationship for two years now.. we had been in alot of fights but we always made up because we love eachother alot.. recently we came across a fight.. u see in both our FB(facebook) accounts we had put on our relationship status as "in a relationship".but recentlt my guy asked me permisiion to chnage his profile status to single becuse he had to add a married cousin sis of his whose a critic on love affairs.i understood him(bcos his cousin whose much older than him loves him like her son)... so i said ok to it and he asked me to open another new profile for him and put the staus on rwelationship.. i did as he told.. and increased his privacy settings so that his cousin sis wont ...
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sudden change of feelings
Posted Thursday September 11 2008, 12:33 am
I can have the hugest crush on a guy, the first date I will still have a huge crush on him, and then on the second all my feelings for him just evaporate. This happens every time, and I found the most amazing guy who really likes me and I DID really like him, the first date was perfect, we talked online, it was still perfect, I saw him, all my feelings evaporated.
Why does this happen? I hate myself for it, and I've only been with my boyfriend 4 days, and yesterday all my passionate feelings went away and I feel absolutely nothing for him except friendship kind of love.
I mean we had the most perfect amazing date, the most amazing conversations, and I really though wow this is real, I think we will be together...
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confused
Posted Wednesday September 10 2008, 10:46 pm
i have been going out with this guy for about two months now. and me and him is more of a seriously relationship people. the thing is, i think i'm starting to loose feelings for this guy. i've noticed that i've been avoiding him lately, because it feels like everything is like a schedule... it all happens over and over again, everyday. i'm tired of it... he still really likes me, so i guess it's just me. the thing is... if i break it off with him, it's going to be hard... because his older sister is best friend's with my older sister. even though they said "it's between ya'll.. we won't have any business in your relationship" but my sister said "do me a favor, and please don't hurt him" my boyfriend does make me feel pre...
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