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More than friends but need More
I have a girl and we've always been more than friends but never actually have made it official that we were dating but now im at the point were i need to know that she is my girl friend and that were not just messing around with each other and am not sure how to go about it.
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I think you need to have a talk with her, and tell her exactly how you're feeling. That you're ready to be in a relationship, or that you at least want to know if this is going somewhere. You deserve to know and you have every right to ask her, so I think that's what you should do.
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Alright, all you have to do is sit down where nobody can bother you and start a conversation. Lead the conversation into talking about your relationship. Tell her how you really feel, and she will open up to you. Once you tell her how you really feel everything will just fall into place. Woman have this thing about talking about relationships. They love talking about it even though they won't admit it. So basically all you want to do is sit down and have a chat about will happen between you guys. Good luck!
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It is definitely frustrating when you feel like you are being dragged into a friendship/ friends with benefits/relationship ordeal. Women love honesty, they want a straight answer, and they like to talk about their feelings. Make sure you are in a room with no one else in it and make sure she is listening to what you have to say and not trying to mess with you. Tell her that you like her alot, more than a friend actually. Then say you want a relationship and not just some fling. Friends with benefits start to get complicated when you develop feelings for the person. Most people don't know this but men and women actually think alike and they don't even know it. She feels the exact same way, she is just to scared to say anything. In her mind, she thinks that if you guys have a relaitonship then all the fooling around will stop and she doesn't want that but at the same time she was to be with you and only you. When you talk to her, you need to let her know that nothing will change, just the label of your status will.
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