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ugh. helppp. im hurtingg.
17/f okay so recently my bf broke up woth me because i cheated on him a few times. i know what i did was bad. i get it. i learned my lesson because i lost someone i truly care about. my problem is i just dont know how to sayy no. my bf lived 2 hours away and i didnt get to see him very often. and he SAID that once i get my life together we can get back but i dunno. im sooo hurt and he doesnt talk to me anymore. anyways i am trying to get my life back on track but theres a little problem. my best friend is a guy who also knows my boyfriend. they live by eachother, and recently he told me he really likes me. and i dunno. i mean i know im not going to cheat again that isnt the problem. the problem is i kow my ex would never get back woth me if i went for my bestie. but he makes me soo happy. lke he is here when my ex isnt. so i dunno soemone pleaseee help me =(
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I know you said that you know what you did was bad and you get it, but im not sure you do.
If you "don't know how to say no", you are still being too selfish to enjoy the benefits of a relationship, or the company of someone who fully opens up to you.. because once you are in a real relationship, it's not just about you "not feeling like saying no", it's about saying NO for the person you care about, and if you can't even do that, you aren't ready to give either of these guys what they need and it's unfair to promise them something you can't give.
If your ex isn't talking to you anymore it is most likely because he's trying to move on, so let him. Keep in mind you both were hurt. Sorry if this sounds harsh, but you're worried that dating your best friend (which you obviously want to do) might screw up your chances of getting back with an ex you cheated on.. your decision is made, i don't think you need anyone's help on this one.
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well ther is two ways to look at this you can surely ruin a friendship and hook up with your bestie and also lose your ex completely or you can wait things out awhile and tell your bestie that you just think that you need to get things back on track before you think about getting back into another relationship i really think you need time to heal yourself from this
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