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i've had enough
k ive been in a long ditance relationship for 1 year and i really love my boyfriend. but lately he's been working and sometimes he's had alot of homework that we don't even talk at all. and it feels like i don't even have a boyfriend any more. please help me deal with this. all i want is more time with him. i'm not old enough to fly and see him any time i want. i really miss him and i don't want to break up with him that's not an option so dont suggest it. how do i tell my boyfriend this so he understands better. how do i explain to him that it's either his job or me. please help me.
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It would be extremely foolish of you to make your boyfriend choose between you and his job. He will need to have a job in order for him to pay any fares to come and see you. Sometimes, life can be hard and you have to play a waiting game for what you want. If you are really serious about him, you need to give him the space to get through what appears to be a busy time for him. In all honesty, long distance relationships rarely work out at such a young age because of all the nitty gritty bits of life that get in the way. If you really feel the need to make an ultimatum, I suggest writing him a letter putting down what you want from your relationship and giving him a little time to work out how he feels and what he wants. I wish you all the best with this very difficult situation. Good luck.
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