|
please help me:'(
me and my guy have been in a serious(long distance) relationship for two years now.. we had been in alot of fights but we always made up because we love eachother alot.. recently we came across a fight.. u see in both our FB(facebook) accounts we had put on our relationship status as "in a relationship".but recentlt my guy asked me permisiion to chnage his profile status to single becuse he had to add a married cousin sis of his whose a critic on love affairs.i understood him(bcos his cousin whose much older than him loves him like her son)... so i said ok to it and he asked me to open another new profile for him and put the staus on rwelationship.. i did as he told.. and increased his privacy settings so that his cousin sis wont find him on FB.i put on his profile info from his original profile and added a pic.. and i told him about it, he said to remove all personal info from his profile.. and i said "its ok forget about opening a profile for me then"..
and i was very hurt.. didnt talk with him properly for the whole day..and i didnt give him the reason for it.. the next day i spoke he was angry with me... anyway it went on like that and i ended up telling him "i hate you, why are you always getting angry with me, i didnt even complain about that profile but i was hurt about it".. and now he's angry with me for 2 whiole days.. i called him many times but he sounds distant.. i begged him to forgive me but he says i have crossed his limits..
i love him to death.. and i didnt mean what i said when i said i hated him :'(... i told him that, sent him an -card.. cried, begged himk back... i know he got very hurt over what i said.. bcos he has never done like this to me before. what shuld i do... i miss him so much.. how do i win him back again.. please help me out
please dont give me lectures on what i dd was wrong.. i accept that.. and i deeply regret it and i will never do anything like that again.. but what should i do now to get him back???
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
I dont think you have done anything wrong .. if anything i think he is in the wrong for wanting to change his profile in the first place. I understand about his cousin but he should have just delt with it, even if that ment his cousin lecturing him.
As to getting him back, i think if u keep begging him it will only annoy him and not really make him want to talk to you. Whereas if you leave him for a while and let him calm down, then he should start speaking to you again because he will miss talking to you. Hope you two sort everything out x
]
This questions reminds me of some people in my neighboorhood. One of the people in the relationship changed their relationship status to single and the other got real mad. They were together for years too on and off and they seem really happy. Eventually, they realized it was stupid to fight over something so miniscule and were once again happy. It's hard for me to hear about things like this because I ruined a perfectly good high school senior year but accidently letting it slip that I was in love with someone in my class and now I have to listen to everything about him and his girlfriend thanks to facebook, myspace, and so on. In my opinion if this guy of yours loves you as much as you love him he should be happy with you and anything that happens between you two. Use fights as a growing mechanism and realize that fights are just there to give you a little space so you can become closer than ever. I have learned to accept that this guy will never be mine but I have also learned that it is not a bad thing to love him forever in my heart. Good luck.
]
More Questions: |