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im 17, theres this guy i realy like ive known him for nearly a year from school, i was out with my mate and i got chatting and that got his number and i didnt like him at the start but we i thought about it then i realy did like him, i was too clingy texting him 24/7 as i didnt want any1 else to have him i told him how i felt and i asked him out i tottaly embairssed myself because he said no i just thought he liked me too because of the nices texts i was getting back and he always reapyed, stuff got around we didnt speak for ages my best m8 said to me she wanted him so i thought well she will get with her but later on he told me he wouldnt and we sorted it , but ive never got him out of my head i cant get with any1, when im not with him i realy want him but when im with him i dont? but i do if that makes sense?, days went by still texting everyday and i met him and we went out with some mates, for the first time we chatted and spoked about everyting and got on it was amazing never thought it with him after everythig loved it, but then i went off to meet this lad my mates said that hes said how can i be with her if she going to go of and he kept following and hidding to see were i was goin, he said he done care if i want him, but now he want to no my business what im doing who im with etc i said ive found a lad but he says cant you wait for someone to come along? and say he nos this lad and that he will mess you about, after that night we fall out because i belived other people over him but next day sorted it . he nos i realy like him, i just dont no why he texts me bk al the time or cant he just tell me to leave him alone because i think he will hurt me? i am hurt because i want him and i cant move on, but hes always going to be a guy i will always like and he nos is, hes clingly on me now even if i dont text back he keep texting me like i did.
i just dont no were i am with him? but i dont wanna ask again.
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I understand what you're saying. My advice is to meet up with him and just say straight out - "I do still like you and I wanna be with you, and it's confusing when you act jealous about me and _____ because you said you werent interested" - or something like that.
It'll be really hard and you'll probably be scared of getting hurt again - but just think about how much you're hurting now. You can't go on like that.
If he says that he doesnt want to be with you then dont get upset. It'll kill you, yeah, but then you can explain to him that you just needed to know so you can move on.
If he says that he does want to be with you then thats great - obviously, but make sure the score is settled with the guy.
Hope it works out
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