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whats his deal?
my boyfriend has been doing numerous things that hurt my feelings.
i still love him.
but its really pissing me off.
for example: he'll tellme these made up stories to impress me
He'll say something about my period or something that will make me feel extremely uncomfortable.
He'll talk about things that happened with girls all the time.
Im not being sensitive either, and i cant tell him to stop otherwise hell make me feel guilty,or blame it on me.
example:
him (7:12:36 PM): whats tinas last name
him (7:12:40 PM): jw
me (7:13:18 PM): i dont know
me (7:14:52 PM): y
him (7:15:15 PM): i wanted to see if she had a myspace or facebook
me (7:16:00 PM): o
yeah that was an IM convo that happened last night
heres another one.
him(4:37:29 PM): some girl had her period in class today
him (4:37:39 PM): it was soo funny
him (4:38:03 PM): im not even kidding
me (4:38:56 PM): girls just dont go 'OOPS I HAD MY PERIOD!" its something you cant feel so you put a pad on the day you have it.
him (4:48:41 PM): but i can tel she didnt have her period yet cause she jumped in her seat then she ran to the bathroom
him (4:48:54 PM): screaming OHH SHIT
me (4:48:57 PM): ohmygod nobody does that when they have their period tho
me (4:49:07 PM): you dont even feel it
him (4:49:08 PM): well aprently she did
things like that.
he thinks i cant tell when hes lying.
or like
"My friend alyssa wanted to give me a lap dance but i turned her down cause i have you."
help?
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Yea he may be jealous. The thing with asking someones myspace though, he just wanted to know and was probably bored or something. If he seems like he's jealous or something though, then you need to tell him it bothers you.
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hmm... are you sure he's just not trying to tell you about his day (second convo) or that he's just trying to make you jelous? to see your reaction or what you would do? have you talked to him about how these convo's about other girls make you feel? you have to let your inner voice be heard especially if it's a REALTIONSHIP made of 2 People.. not just one... =] remember that. make sure youre happy.. make sure he knows how you feel and if he doesnt care and doesnt wanna change his habits to make you happy then that should show how much he doesnt care about you. good luck hon!
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