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confused
i have been going out with this guy for about two months now. and me and him is more of a seriously relationship people. the thing is, i think i'm starting to loose feelings for this guy. i've noticed that i've been avoiding him lately, because it feels like everything is like a schedule... it all happens over and over again, everyday. i'm tired of it... he still really likes me, so i guess it's just me. the thing is... if i break it off with him, it's going to be hard... because his older sister is best friend's with my older sister. even though they said "it's between ya'll.. we won't have any business in your relationship" but my sister said "do me a favor, and please don't hurt him" my boyfriend does make me feel pretty bad saying that he really likes me and doesn't wanna loose me. and if there's something wrong, he wants to work it out. but how is it going to work out? i feel like being single.. or maybe it's because i've been watching some asian drama that makes me feel like "i want that guy... or i wish i had a guy like him" but maybe it isn't the drama that's been effecting me. it started way before, but who knows? i sometimes want to feel free and go explore and hug my best guy friends and everything, i don't want to look like a slut... maybe it's because i haven't seen him for 2 weeks now... but after that, i feel the same again... losing feelings. but i've also thought about the future, i'd be scared of him going for some other girl.. but then yet, it's confusing.
what should i do? help me please!
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I've been through a very similar situation at this 'cept I was the who she was getting tired of.. I told her I liked her, and she knew I had strong feelings towards her, but anyway.. if your boyfriend is anything as myself, he'll handle it ok.. I told her that if she wanted a break, I'd be here for her no matter what, regardless if it's a boyfriend or just a friend.. Once she got that little "break" if you will we're kinda back on and haven't had issues since then..
As for the older sisters, I really don't know what to tell you there, sorry.. You could talk to your sister and tell her the situation as you've described it here and maybe she'll understand where you're coming from..
Let me know how things work out! I hope I helped a little..
Good luck!
Chase
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