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So simply put;
I am a 16 year old girl.
Can I be in love? (link)
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I've found myself asking the same question, and I'm just 13, granted I am quite mature for my age, though over time, I'll continue to mature..
Anyway, if you truly care about that person, and you find yourself thinking about them a lot throughout the day, and always wish you could be with them, and just overall, enjoy their company, then yes I would say you're in love..
Hope this Helps!
Chase
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16/f
I went to a party 2 weeks ago. Well while i was there, i met this guy and i thought he was pretty cute. Well we were just talking as friend kassandra is his friend. Well, i thought he was cute so she told him that. He said i was pretty but he liked some other girl to. So, two weeks later (last night) i went to another party and he was there and he started coming up and talking to me and giving me hugs and all that. He got my number from one of my friends and he said that he was going to call me when he got home from the party. Well, he never called. I'm sure something came up or something, but that's only half my problem. I am not good talking to the guys i like. I naturally get nervous and don't know what to say. I am really shy and i've tried to be the best outgoing person i can but it just dosen't work. So, when he does call me, i'm not sure what to say or talk about. I mean, me and my last boyfriend always had those awkward silences on the phone and i hated it. Before he knew i liked him, i had no trouble talking to him but now since he knows, it's awkward. What do i do? What do i say?
Thanks! (link)
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I had the same exact problem a few weeks ago! I had no idea what to say, and figured I'd be making a fool of myself, however I got the nerve up, called and just talked about "simple" things until I became more calm then we had a casual conversation as if I would with a friend.. As in "simple" things, I mean things such as music, games, or whatever it is that you and him have in common that is simple (hobby, job, ect.) and then take it from there.. That's what I did..
Hope this Helps!
Chase
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ok so i like this guy and we are like already friends and stuff and we talk on the regular but i want to be more then friends... like i notice that he's always looking at me in class then when i look at him like he makes these cute little funny faces at me. and like we both have the same favorite candy... but i want to make this relationship go faster i want to be his girl friend? do yu have any sighs he might give me to tell me he likes me to and what can i do to show him i like him without actully telling him? please help me!!!!!! (link)
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Sounds like he kinda likes you as well, however is he a shy kind of kid? If NOT, it may mean he just wants to be friends ans is comfortable with conditions as they stand right now.. However, if he isn't the shy type and you think he'd like to be your boyfriend as well, then you could always just tell him how you feel (even though you don't really wanna do that), but if he does "like" you then I would think he would understand if you told him the way you felt about him..
Just my 0.2
Hope I helped a little! Keep me posted!
Chase
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i have been going out with this guy for about two months now. and me and him is more of a seriously relationship people. the thing is, i think i'm starting to loose feelings for this guy. i've noticed that i've been avoiding him lately, because it feels like everything is like a schedule... it all happens over and over again, everyday. i'm tired of it... he still really likes me, so i guess it's just me. the thing is... if i break it off with him, it's going to be hard... because his older sister is best friend's with my older sister. even though they said "it's between ya'll.. we won't have any business in your relationship" but my sister said "do me a favor, and please don't hurt him" my boyfriend does make me feel pretty bad saying that he really likes me and doesn't wanna loose me. and if there's something wrong, he wants to work it out. but how is it going to work out? i feel like being single.. or maybe it's because i've been watching some asian drama that makes me feel like "i want that guy... or i wish i had a guy like him" but maybe it isn't the drama that's been effecting me. it started way before, but who knows? i sometimes want to feel free and go explore and hug my best guy friends and everything, i don't want to look like a slut... maybe it's because i haven't seen him for 2 weeks now... but after that, i feel the same again... losing feelings. but i've also thought about the future, i'd be scared of him going for some other girl.. but then yet, it's confusing.
what should i do? help me please! (link)
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I've been through a very similar situation at this 'cept I was the who she was getting tired of.. I told her I liked her, and she knew I had strong feelings towards her, but anyway.. if your boyfriend is anything as myself, he'll handle it ok.. I told her that if she wanted a break, I'd be here for her no matter what, regardless if it's a boyfriend or just a friend.. Once she got that little "break" if you will we're kinda back on and haven't had issues since then..
As for the older sisters, I really don't know what to tell you there, sorry.. You could talk to your sister and tell her the situation as you've described it here and maybe she'll understand where you're coming from..
Let me know how things work out! I hope I helped a little..
Good luck!
Chase
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female
13 years old.
Zack. Zack Garrett. I love him with all my heart, and I know what any of you reading this are thinking..it'll pass over. Someone else will come along. Well.. I've tried to let go after we broke up. I shunned all contact from him and didn't keep any reminders. Explored the single world you know? Well he was my best love. It's hard to imagine better until it happens.
When shunning him didn't exactly work, and I stopped, all the memories and thoughts of him invaded my mind almost immediately. I currently talk to him, and things are looking up for me again. I think we may hook up.
But this isn't the problem. The problem is, had I really thought of only him for a month straight? Every time I thought or saw romance he popped into my head. Every time I tried to date (or even thought about it for that matter!) I compared them to Zack and decided it wasn't worth it. Everything was HIM. I'd even find myself making up fake conversations or scenarios in my head. When he dated someone else I looked at his girlfriend's profile CONSTANTLY. Read their comments. Looked at their pictures together just to see him. I check in on his life so frequently I know all about all his friends and what he does on weekends! IS THIS NORMAL?
Does every girl think about their ex for a month straight after a break up? Am I obsessed? I feel exactly as in love with him as I did the very first day. It didn't sway in the least. (link)
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I'm kinda new at this, but I will suggest that I was, well kinda am going through the same scenario.. To help me get through it, I tend to think about other things, yeah yeah sounds boring, but I try to keep my mind occupied on other things and then slowly it seems as if I'm not "crushing" as bad or am slowly accepting the fact that she's no longer dating me and that we're just friends.. It's been hurting me for a while now, but I try to just keep my mind elsewhere until my mind just kinda accepts the fact.. It took me a while, a very long while, but I'm slowly getting better..
I'm sorry, I doubt it's a good "answer" but I just figured I'd give it a shot..
Good luck!
Chase
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