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a boy who i like


Posted Thursday October 23 2008, 6:02 pm

I realy like this boy who has just started university. He has been given my number and didnt get back to me. I asked his work colleague who said that he really likes me too, tht he is shy ( that makes two of us) and also that with him startin uni, he cannot commit himself at the moment as he has to buckle down. I really dont want to miss this chance with him but i understand about his studying . what do i do? any advice?

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my ex


Posted Thursday October 23 2008, 5:09 pm

this is gunna be super long..lol

there was this really cute guy at my school and everyone always said he was a man whore and i promised i would never go out with him..the two summers ago he said he liked me and i did have a crush on him. we dated for a couple months and i broke up with him it seemed like he always flirted with a lot of girls. about a month later we started going out again and i broke up with him cause i thought i didnt like him anymore but i was really upset and i wanted him really bad. we started going out again around new years and i heard he kissed a girl while we were talking so i decided to hold hands with his friend to piss him off and we broke up..obviously lol. a couple days leter he started dating my...

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What am I gonna do with him?


Posted Thursday October 23 2008, 3:27 pm

Before I begin, let me just say that this is a LONG scenerio!

Towards the end of June, I met an amazing kid, infact he was too good to be true. Throughout summer we hung out 3/4 times a week and I was really starting to like him, a lot. He would even borrow my car when I was at work because he didn't have a car at the time, and I trusted him. He never acted suspicious and we spent so much time together I was falling in love with him. Once school started I started to pick him up in the mornings so he could go to school with my car and I would let him use my car when I was at work. And we would chill everyday after I got out of work, and we would always be together on my off days. We were together every single day & it was ...

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my boyfriend


Posted Thursday October 23 2008, 8:12 am

Okay, look me and my boyfriend are doing pretty good..."i guess" like we haven't argued or anything like that. But anyways! My boyfriend is really sweet and funny, but sometimes he frustrated me. He does this thing where he'll be all over me one day and the next day he will ingore me completely. But he stays ingoreing...sometimes a little and sometimes a lot. But over the summer we would have long night conversations like I love you and I miss you and things like that, and when we would hang out he would love being with me...but now that school has started he really hasn't been himself. Like I said he hangs out with his friends and doesn't pay much attention with me, but there was this one day where I hung out with his family at C...

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14 & 19


Posted Thursday October 23 2008, 7:04 am

Okay so i developed real early and im very mature. i'm 14 but i honestly do looke atleast 17 or 18 & act this way to. well theres this real sweet hot kid who is 19..and he always says "i wish you weren't so young" blah blah. i know it is against the law to do anything with him, but it's like my body/personality dont go with my age. it's like im in the wrong time zoneish haha. well me and him have been thinking about it and always talk about hooking up. i just don't see why it's such a big deal. but if i were to do anything with him, how would anyone find out? i don't see how he could get in trouble. so my question really is, is it wrong to be in love with someone who is 5 years older then you?

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Lesbian?!


Posted Thursday October 23 2008, 5:44 am

I'm 13/f. I just started middle school since i'm in hong kong and the whole school thing is different. So when i started school there was this girl who used to stick to me all the time and hold my arm and stuff like that. Then after a few days she stopped. then she started doing it to other people and i get jealous. and i always dream about her and think about her. i think i like her but i don't want to be a lesbian. like i get all shy around her and blush and brush my arm against her and stuff, and get really happy when she looks at me or talks to me.
but the problem is, she holds hands with different people all the time. i don't think its so serious, and i'm not planning to tell her i like her. but how can i forget about her? i re...

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Age Difference?


Posted Wednesday October 22 2008, 10:54 pm

16/f

i have this question about age differences. why is it that there are married people and people dating that are 10 yrs apart, but it's not okay for a 17 yr old to be dating a 21 or 22 yr old?
your technically allowed to date at 16 right?


i need some insight from people.
thanks. =)

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confusing boy


Posted Wednesday October 22 2008, 10:07 pm

okay, so i met this kid through my friend and he had originally liked my one friend..but after we hung out more he liked me instead. well we would text and he was really talkative and would text me first. then we hung out like 2 times and the texting like slowly stopped..i would have to text him first and if he would respond it would be like one word answers that would make me feel annoying to text him. So, we hung out again after that and he was all cool in person and like talkative, flirty, blah blah blah. well then texting him the days after it was back to one word answers. he goes to another school so i never see him in the week and we hang out like once a month because he always seems to be busy and im not sure if hes worth liking. i m...

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LOVE LIFE FROM HELL!


Posted Wednesday October 22 2008, 9:42 pm

ok My ex boyfriend from 7 months ago started to reasntly talk to me. He was my first and he knows I still love him and how can I stop? I want to but I can't. Well today my friend got dumped and told me she was wishing they would get back together and I told her not to wish anymore because it was poitless and she knew it was because I have been wishing for me and my first to get back together. Well I texted him about it then was got into a fight. Then he said "I don't know why I was thinking about wasteing my time with you again"..Anyone know what that means? if it means he wants me back how do I get him back to that level? I am so confused on top of that a guy I have liked since last year hit on me today. He dated my cuz and I tho...

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COOLEST GAME EVER!


Posted Wednesday October 22 2008, 7:59 pm

Okay, so my brother has a friend who has a friend named Bobby. My name is Ashley. One day I needed money for lunch, so I went up to Bobby and said, "Can I borrow some lunch money." He said yes and just told me to give him back the change. Good. End of day. The next day I try to hand him the four dollars that I owe him and he won't take it, so I shove it into his locker. The next day I find the money back in my locker. The next few days go something like that. I start to like him, and he starts to like me. I told him to go to the football game that I cheer at and he did. The next day I give him a ballon with the four dollars in it. He greatly takes it and I thought that was it. Next day he comes to school with a cute present bag al...

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i think i miay like him but does he like me?


Posted Wednesday October 22 2008, 7:30 pm

hey im 14/f hes 14/m
well lets start off and say i like him i alot and we passs each other in the hallway all the time and talk and after our practices(mines cheer and his is baseball)okay we talk alot and if i dont give him a hug hes like oh i see how it is.okay well one time i hurt my wrist really bad and statred crying and i had to go to the trianer at our school. well he was done there and once i got in and he saw i was crying he was right by my side seeing if i was okay and what happend. after i was done crying. i asked him how bad i loooked he said you all ways look cute. that made me smile really big.okay some homceing night he went with his girlfriend but they brooke up last week. any way he left her to come talk to me and he...

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3 guys.


Posted Wednesday October 22 2008, 7:07 pm

15/f

ok so i have 3 really good guy friends. problem is, they're all basically in love with me. 2 of them tell me constantly that they are, and the other one i just recently started dating.

one of them i dated a year or so ago, but were such good friends that i dont even think of him as an ex anymore. the second one i met beginning of last school year, and has pretty much liked me since then. the last one ive been friends with for a really long time and never really thought of him as something more.

so i decided to go with one of them to homecoming just as friends (the third one that ive been friends with for a long time) and then, he asked me out. i was really caught off guard and didnt know...

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ex boyfriend


Posted Wednesday October 22 2008, 6:42 pm

i have classes with my ex boyfriend and hes always flirting with other girls, and i get so sad to the point where i feel like im about to start crying in class. what can i do to get over it.

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Survey of hobbies girls find impressive


Posted Wednesday October 22 2008, 6:35 pm

Do girls think magicians are hotter than guitarist,drummers and jocks?

Some find them creepy while some find them hot.

What is your take on this?

thanks

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cheater,liar, and still with him


Posted Wednesday October 22 2008, 4:29 pm

my boyfriend/exboyfriend... it's complicated. he cheated, lied, and lied some more. he broke up with me for "stressing him out". he's asked to get back together many times and he asked today and i decided to say yes. now i think i'm going nutso. a girl commented him on myspace saying hi stalker yesterday and today after he got home he went online and commented her saying hi and she commented back. he didn't call me then is sleeping now i guess. i told him i don't feel very important to him in a voicemail and that today is a perfect example of the things he does that make me feel that way. i don't want to be nutso. i want to not care. i am nutso for taking him back. how do i stop being nutso? i feel dying whenever something goes wr...

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rommies love me...


Posted Wednesday October 22 2008, 2:31 pm

18/f
Alright i like this guy sooooooo much.
and his best friend told me he really likes me back, but idk the other day he did'nt really act like it.
anyways all of his roomates like me a lot, ha they even told me they like me a lot more than his ex.
which is a good sign.
but anyways...i dont want to seem like im trying too hard, or not hard enough...
but i honestly like him sooooo much!!!!!
so so much lol
help.


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sex offer? are you kidding!?


Posted Wednesday October 22 2008, 2:24 pm

Okay so to explain my situation; I like this guy, alot and he likes me too. He just came out of a 3 year relationship, the day before we met. we've become very close, perhaps best friends with some extent of physicaly contact. We were discussing our situation yesterday where I explained to him that I liked him and I knew he wasn't ready for another relationship but I was ready to wait. He came back with a comment on how he felt special that he was my first kiss and that if I wanted him to be another first (hint hint) then all I needed to do was ask. Okay so he JUST tells me he doesn't want to ruch into anything yet he offers me to have sex with him, my first time. I'm so confused! I know he was nice about it and said he didn't want to...

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Get a date, start to hate


Posted Wednesday October 22 2008, 2:24 pm

This is very frustrating. I might really like a guy, and whenever he starts liking me back and flirting with me and taking me out, I quickly stop liking him. And so I break it off with them, and they hate me because they felt I led them on, but those "dislike" feelings happen so quickly and out of the blue, I really don't mean to lead them on.

This happens to me EVERY single time. I think it might be because I was completely in love with a guy for a few years, and I always wish it was him that was doting on me instead of some other guy. I don't like that guy anymore, but he was the only guy I wasn't able to get.

They all treat me like a queen (except for the guy I loved, he treated me like crap, yet ...

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I always feel so alone :(


Posted Wednesday October 22 2008, 8:05 am

There's a guy who kind of like, and we had a thing in the past, and now it's just completely fucked up.
But that's not the point.
I always feel so alone, and this feeling bothers me so much.
I'm with friends a lot, so I'm not a loner, but it's more like the company of a boyfriend.
How can I ease this feeling? It's getting me down :(

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Same as always only getting worse.


Posted Wednesday October 22 2008, 12:41 am

Ok so as all my previous questions have said me and my best friend were super close for months. She met this 20 year old guy, and he found out that me and my best friend dated for 7 months one of those months being after they started dating and now he doesnt want us to be friends anymore (at least that's how it seems) Most teenage girls go through the experimentation stage right? I mean ever since her and i dated the break up sucked and i can't get over it. But since she got with this guy she acts like she doesnt care about me anymore. She told me no matter what she'd always love me but lately she puts me down so much. it isnt just her it's everyone i know and im getting to the point where i want to hurt myself. It kills when the one person...

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