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3 guys.
15/f
ok so i have 3 really good guy friends. problem is, they're all basically in love with me. 2 of them tell me constantly that they are, and the other one i just recently started dating.
one of them i dated a year or so ago, but were such good friends that i dont even think of him as an ex anymore. the second one i met beginning of last school year, and has pretty much liked me since then. the last one ive been friends with for a really long time and never really thought of him as something more.
so i decided to go with one of them to homecoming just as friends (the third one that ive been friends with for a long time) and then, he asked me out. i was really caught off guard and didnt know what to do. so i said no and maybe something would happen after homecoming. since then i kind of changed my view of him, like maybe i did like him. but i knew i only felt like that because i knew he liked me. so after homecoming and he asks me out. i say yes, but never and still dont feel quite right about it. like i value our friendship much more. so i dont know what to do about that..... like should i end it or what? but theres more... thanks for reading all of this.
so my ex has like me for a long time. has never stopped liking me for like... 2 years now. and he keeps bugging me about going out with him and stuff but hides his feelings. i dont know why. and i will always care about him. like he will always be my best guy friend. but sometimes i get the feeling that i want something more. not like a relationship, but idk.
and then the other one that i met last year is hands down the nicest, sweetest guy i have ever met in my life. and i feel really bad because hes in love with me, he even wrote me a song like last week to tell me how he feels even though i have a bf. and he says he finally found the girl hes been looking for and wants to be with me and will wait and so on. and i have like him from time to time in the past, but it fades. and now recently its coming back, but stronger.
so heres the deal. i am so confused. what should i do? i want something more with all of them, but i hate relationships right now because they never work out.... who should i choose? and what should i do about my current bf? (and since we've been going out he doesnt really talk to me, i know hes nervous but come on...)i dont want to lose any of them..sorry if this is kinda confusing... i didnt really know how to put it into words.
thankssss.
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I think what you should do is ditch your non talking bf and as for your other three guys I think you should tell them all that as much as you are flattered you need some time to figure things out and that if they really do feel for you they should be patient. Then what you need to do is take like a week or two of being single and figure out who you feel the most for instead of having all this stress on your brain!! After your feelings are sorted and you have thought about it I am sure youll know who to chose for a bf and who to keep as just friends!!
Good Luck and I hope all goes well!!
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