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cheater,liar, and still with him
my boyfriend/exboyfriend... it's complicated. he cheated, lied, and lied some more. he broke up with me for "stressing him out". he's asked to get back together many times and he asked today and i decided to say yes. now i think i'm going nutso. a girl commented him on myspace saying hi stalker yesterday and today after he got home he went online and commented her saying hi and she commented back. he didn't call me then is sleeping now i guess. i told him i don't feel very important to him in a voicemail and that today is a perfect example of the things he does that make me feel that way. i don't want to be nutso. i want to not care. i am nutso for taking him back. how do i stop being nutso? i feel dying whenever something goes wrong with me and him and think about cutting myself. i don't want to do that. i need help. i don't want to dig a deeper whole and have my parents find out so i can't talk to couselors at school.
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Okay, I've been there. I went out with this guy, who lied, cheated. Then I took him back, and he cheated again, we broke up. Then I think it happened one more time. Anyways I know how you feel.. I felt like it was my fault. I was wondering what i did wrong, Why he cheated on me etc. Then I got a reality check. I realised it wasn't my fault, it was his fault. He was an ass. He would call me a whore, bitch, skank, slut.. stuff like that. I took him back anyways... Don't let him do this to you. Don't keep giving him more and more chances. Because you will be the one who gets hurt. Don't hurt yourself either.. please.. He made the mistake, he hurt you, don't let him win.
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Oh honey... I've been there... I've been there a lot. What I can honestly say, from experience, is "ONCE A CHEATER, ALWAYS A CHEATER" at least with you.
I've been cheated on, and it repeated... I've cheated, and that repeated. I don't what it is but once people know you'll take them back after they cheat, they'll keep doing it.
I say you drop the man before he causes you more heartache. It's just human nature, I guess. There are more men out there for you.
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K well first of all you dump him and try being single if the guy does stupid/mean things to you then forget about him hes not worth your time or energy so move on then you wont feel so nutso and your life will be all better i hope you take my advice because this is the only way your going to feel better and prevent yourself from cutting yourself good luck:)
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