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I always feel so alone :(
There's a guy who kind of like, and we had a thing in the past, and now it's just completely fucked up.
But that's not the point.
I always feel so alone, and this feeling bothers me so much.
I'm with friends a lot, so I'm not a loner, but it's more like the company of a boyfriend.
How can I ease this feeling? It's getting me down :(
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I felt exactly like you about 2/3 months ago and to be honest, I have only just got over it. I was with my friends a lot, but it didn't seem enough for me and I just wanted to be with a guy. It will take time for you to change how you feel, but you will do!! and i'm sure a lot of people will tell you this, but time can only ease the feeling. I started to focus more on other things such as school, work and friends and family!! It feels such a releif now, and this feeling will pass, I promise!! Good Luck :-)
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Friends can't always fill the void that a relationship can, and I know that; I've been there.
I could tell you to go out and get yourself a boyfriend, but I know it's not that easy and the guys that come easy aren't the ones you want.
I could tell you that you need to love yourself and that space will go away, but I know that's not true.
So what can I tell you that will help? Talk to someone. Talk to your friends about it, go see a counselor or a shrink; talk to your mom about it over breakfast. The more you talk about it, the more it tends to fade. I know first hand. I chose a shrink, but you don't have to. Just talk. Write it down too, just get it out of yourself so it can't fester anymore, and you'll notice it less and less, because it'll start to go away.
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i cannot tell you how much we are in the same situation! the same thing happend to me...but after i realized that he obviously didnt give a damn about me i got over him...and i think you might not completley be over him and if you are i think the problem is that maybe you just miss him or something like that...so maybe you should flirt with other guys hang out with other people and basically just do anything you can to forget him because mine did, he dosent even care he broke my heart so why should i care?
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