Free AdviceGet Free Advice
Home | Get advice | Give advice | Topics | Columnists | - !START HERE! -
Make Suggestions | Sitemap

Get Advice


Search Questions

Ask A Question

Browse Advice Columnists

Search Advice Columnists

Chat Room

Give Advice

View Questions
Search Questions
Advice Topics

Login

Username:
Password:
Remember me
Register for free!
Lost Password?

Want to give Advice?

Sign Up Now
(It's FREE!)

Miscellaneous

Shirts and Stuff
Page Backgrounds
Make Suggestions
Site News
Link To Us
About Us
Terms of Service
Help/FAQ
Sitemap
Contact Us


Same as always only getting worse.


Question Posted Wednesday October 22 2008, 12:41 am

Ok so as all my previous questions have said me and my best friend were super close for months. She met this 20 year old guy, and he found out that me and my best friend dated for 7 months one of those months being after they started dating and now he doesnt want us to be friends anymore (at least that's how it seems) Most teenage girls go through the experimentation stage right? I mean ever since her and i dated the break up sucked and i can't get over it. But since she got with this guy she acts like she doesnt care about me anymore. She told me no matter what she'd always love me but lately she puts me down so much. it isnt just her it's everyone i know and im getting to the point where i want to hurt myself. It kills when the one person who used to lift your spirits up is now the one bringing you down. What do I do. I will never be able to live without her in my life. But he and her boyfriend are the ones that make me feel the worst all the time. Help if you can.

[ Answer this question ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?


pseudophun answered Wednesday October 22 2008, 7:06 pm:
There's no easy answer... I wish there was.

I never dated my best friend, but we had a couple hookups and one day I woke up knowing that I was in love with her... That's not all that weird for me, being bi, but she's super straight and her family's mormon so I never said anything.

Her boyfriend doesn't like me either...

From what I've gone through, too much to list here, you might just have to cut your friend loose. I know I had to, and it hurt and for a while I thought I would die from missing her. What they say is true, though. God never closes a door without opening a window.

I cut her loose and someone else stepped into her place. I'm okay without her in my life. We still see each other from time to time, but she's no longer a constant.

It's hard but you'll live, I did.

[ pseudophun's advice column | Ask pseudophun A Question
]


More Questions:

<<< Previous Question: Period- Retaining water
Next Question >>> I am arrogant

Recent popular questions:
Want to give advice?

Click here to start your own advice column!

What happened here with my gamer friends?

All content on this page posted by members of advicenators.com is the responsibility those individual members. Other content © 2003-2014 advicenators.com. We do not promise accuracy, completeness, or usefulness of any advice and are not responsible for content.

Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content.
Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.

[Valid RSS] eXTReMe Tracker