I realy like this boy who has just started university. He has been given my number and didnt get back to me. I asked his work colleague who said that he really likes me too, tht he is shy ( that makes two of us) and also that with him startin uni, he cannot commit himself at the moment as he has to buckle down. I really dont want to miss this chance with him but i understand about his studying . what do i do? any advice?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? VeNzUeLa answered Friday October 24 2008, 6:38 am: Well, you have to give him time. Don't give the impression that you are desperate or like you really like him, if he knows you like him, just keep it at that. If he finds you worth it and if he is worth your time, he will call you! So just be patient.. And because he is starting uni, he does need some space and time to himself, to work and all that sort of thing. Just give him time. The fact that you can wait for him when he couldn't commit, makes you the more irresistible and respected, this will show him that you are somethings special, as not many girls would wait.
wolfie_evil answered Friday October 24 2008, 5:13 am: If you really like him, you shouldn't give up on him. Don't go crazy and do something stupid like stalking him. That would turn him off quicker than anything else. But be there for him. Talk to him when he's online. You might not be able to be his "special friend" at the moment, but you can be his friend. Good idea? After a few weeks or even a month of him being at the uni, try getting tickets for a concert you'll both like and invite him, even if it just has to be as a friend. And, no matter what you do, always be yourself around him. Don't become a royal slut or a bitch. Good luck and best wishes!!! [ wolfie_evil's advice column | Ask wolfie_evil A Question ]
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