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LOVE LIFE FROM HELL!
ok My ex boyfriend from 7 months ago started to reasntly talk to me. He was my first and he knows I still love him and how can I stop? I want to but I can't. Well today my friend got dumped and told me she was wishing they would get back together and I told her not to wish anymore because it was poitless and she knew it was because I have been wishing for me and my first to get back together. Well I texted him about it then was got into a fight. Then he said "I don't know why I was thinking about wasteing my time with you again"..Anyone know what that means? if it means he wants me back how do I get him back to that level? I am so confused on top of that a guy I have liked since last year hit on me today. He dated my cuz and I thought that he didnt like me but then today he help me and kissed my head. I dont want to move on from my first if he wants me back...but then again I am confused about if I really want him...and what if this other guy likes me...should I give him a shot??
I AM SO CONFUSED!
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Firstly, you have to understand that it is over. What he meant when he said, "I don't know why I was thinking about wasting my time with you again!" Is that he WANTED to get back with you, but now it has changed, he doesn't want to be with you anymore. To me, he doesn't sound like he is worth you. So I suggest you give the other guy a shot, your first love had his chance and now it's only fair for another to have his. Plus, your ex's reaction isn't very positive, so it should teach him a lesson that you are worth more than he thinks.
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Well you should probably evaluate the reasons why you and your ex broke up in the first place, and decided wether its worth going back to him, for those same issues to come up again, if you both get into an argument. Secondly about what he said, it means that he was considering getting back with you, but with the argument coming along, it detoured his whole thought about it. About the other guy, you'll probably have to do what I told you to do first, and if you come to the conclusion that it's not worth going back to your ex, than maybe it's worth giving this other guy a chance. GOOD LUCK!
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Getting back with ex boys rarely works. Like ever. This guy said something that proves that "wasting my time with you again". He isn't REALLY into you. He's either toying with you or he wants you back just because he knows he can get at you.
Don't go back to that guy. I know it's hard to let go of a guy, I've been there... A LOT... but it really is better for you to move on and find someone else.
And it sounds like you may have found him. Go after this other guy. I can't say for sure that things will work out there, either. What I can tell you is that nothing gets you over a guy like another guy. That is why rebound was invented. This guy doesn't have to be rebound though. You sound like you're at that age where you can freely go through men like kleenex and if you want to, do it. You've earned that. ^_^
Go get the new guy, kick the old one to the curb and have fun, damn it! KIRBY DANCE! (>^-^)> <(^-^<)
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