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Mom, mom, mom.
My mom, jeeze where do i start.
Well, she kind of over reacts its like she worries for me. Example: i'll have like a project do tomorrow and she'll be all like "Do it now." and all concerned and I'll be all calm. Btw, I have a bad case of procrostitnation[sp?] It's not like i never get it done i do and she knows that too. i'm a straight A student and she's still concerned that i wont get it done.
Jeeze, dont get me wrong my moms nice and all and i love her to death. she just drives me crazy sometimes.
I don't know what I'm asking here ,but maybe you can figure it out and help me and what not. Maybe like give me some ways to beat procrostitnation[sp?].
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My mom does the same thing. I totally get it, it can get so annoying. What I tryed to do, was talk to her. Tell her she doesn't have to worry about you finishing it, because, you do get it done. Tell her that if you start slacking off, then she can worry, but you work better when you aren't being pressured about it. Good luck, I hope that helped a bit.
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holy crud this is exactly what my mom does. what i did to beat my procrastination was actually listen to her for once. i did it just to shut her up actually, and i felt a lot better after i had the work done. if you finish the whole thing early, you have more time to just chill after. now, i do my homework like FIRST THING when i get it. when i go to school and everyone's talking about how they have a huge report due tomorrow, i can just be like "HAH. finished it already." i'm not stressing, and there's a lot more time to do other stuff that you actually wanna do.
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shes just foing her job and thinking of whats best for you.
as for procrastination, I AM WITH U ON THAT but i recently discovered when i get home i wanna eat a snack and go on the computer but usually more than i plan so what i started convincing my self of is when i get home eat snack and then watch a 30 minute tv show and then just get my homework over with so i'll have the rest of then night to do whatever i want.
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you mother is concerned because she doesn't want you to fall behind she is probaly very proud that you are a straight A student and doesn't want you to lose that. to go to college to get ahead your career. your mom will always be on your case. when you get older you will understand on your own that she has meant well over the years and you will just appricate it .. its hard to explain and hard to think that will be true but it will.
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Well the only easier way to beat it is to get the job done. It's that simple, but you should probably start when an assignment or chore orwhatever is given to you, to keep you from having to listen to your mom talk and talk, and to save her the precious time wasted
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Procrastination. ^_^
Well, the easiest way is exactly what your mother is telling you. Do it now. Or, you need to set up a schedule to follow. Like, okay you can goof around until such and such time, but you need to buckle down and do it AT THAT TIME. It's hard, I know. I procrastinate more than anyone else on the planet, but once you have a system it's pretty easy to keep up with things.
She worries because she doesn't want you to fall behind. She just loves you. My mom was the same way in high school and such. That's just what they do.
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