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hey hey hey. the name's liz. i'm a freshman, i'm 14 and i love soccer. i am literally obsessed with the sport. my season is done for now though, because i broke my collar bone (aka the 'clavicle'. i love that word) i also play basketball during the winter when soccer slows down a tad. i currently have a 4.3 gpa. i don't consider myself a nerd, and i don't think anyone else i know does either. if you have a problem with me, tell me. if you don't like something i say, ask me about it. i hate being judged, and i hate the negativity. but whatever. i'm done preaching. more about me...hmm. i love animals, i love reading, and i LOVE music. besides soccer, music is my life. right now i'm really into cobra starship. that will change soon, believe me, it always does. THE CHURCH OF HOT ADDICTION ROCKS MY WORLD. lol. people say i'm random, and i completely agree with them. i don't suffer from insanity, i enjoy every minute of it. i don't take things very seriously, and if you do, you have my sympathy. life is too short to do things you don't love. life is also too short to tie yourself down to one best friend or one boyfriend, which is why i have many friends of both genders. that's my story guys. hope i can help you with all your shit. =]

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Yesterday i got my crushes cell #. so i texted him saying hey its justine! whats up? he never replyed! he sent me a fowarded message text! so technically he didnt reply. then today i sent him another text saying hey whats up? and again he didnt reply!!! i know he has a crush on me because he told my 2 friends and my friend over heard him saying he likes me. so he def without a doubt likes me back. he knows i like him 2 cause my friend told him. so if he likes me y wouldnt he text me back? im kinda depressed that he never did. so yea thats my pathetic problem! lol. i would really like some advice!!! thanks soo much!!!

if you're completely sure he likes you, then he was either just busy, or he might be nervous to talk to you because he likes you. just give it time. and sometimes, talking in person is better than texting. starting a relationship is really hard unless you see the other person, well, in person. so keep flirting with him and he'll come around.

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i went out with this guy for 2 years, and throughout the whole relationship he was really abusive. he would hurt me physically and mentally so one day i was caught skipping school with him and i knew i would never be allowed to see him again, so i decided to end it. So i went out with this other guy named Patrick but at the same time im not sure who i really want . i love them both but its just confusing cause anthony was such a big deal in my life. I am really confused about what to do. Please help!

i completely agree with what the other person said on here. if the relationship was abusive, you should be proud of yourself that you stood up to anthony and ended it. if patrick treats you well, then you should definitely choose him.

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So Lots of people are telling me that im skinny on the top but kind of big on the bottom. I would kind of like to get slimmer in the legs and kind of the butt. I already have stretch marks and Im fourteen. Its not i wanna be skinny like the models i just kind of wanna to get healthy...physical and mental...and I was kind of wondering if there are foods to help and if foods like spagehtti(sorry cant spell) or easy mac, hamburgars, or olive garden or chicken or steak or resturants like olive garden can be bad for you? PS IM IN VOLLEYBALL....just thought to tell you im active in a sport. THANKS SO MUCH IF YOU HELP!!!:)

i don't know if this is the case for you or not, but i have always thought that my thighs and my butt were bigger too. i play soccer year round, and basketball in the winter. in my health class a few weeks ago, we did body mass evaluations, and my teacher told me that if you're active in a sport like soccer, basketball, or volleyball, you build a lot of muscle, especially in your thighs and butt (as weird as it sounds). your problem might just be that you're an athletic person, which isn't a problem at all. if it is muscle, don't try to get rid of it. a toned body is better than an extremely skinny body any day.

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im a 20 year old male and i live in Canada
im dating a 14 soon to be 15 year old girl.
i wanna know if this is wrong? and if i have a problem.
i didnt think i did, but all my friends say i do.
so now idont know
i really love this girl

i'm really sorry, but this falls under the category of "creepy". it's also illegal. i would let it drop.

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Can you explain to me what is friends with benefits? I'm kinda confused about it. Thanks

friends with benefits is pretty much when you can make out or go even further with a guy and when you see each other at school the next day you don't act any differently than before. it's basically all of the "good" stuff about dating without the committment of actually dating.

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Okay, so my brother has a friend who has a friend named Bobby. My name is Ashley. One day I needed money for lunch, so I went up to Bobby and said, "Can I borrow some lunch money." He said yes and just told me to give him back the change. Good. End of day. The next day I try to hand him the four dollars that I owe him and he won't take it, so I shove it into his locker. The next day I find the money back in my locker. The next few days go something like that. I start to like him, and he starts to like me. I told him to go to the football game that I cheer at and he did. The next day I give him a ballon with the four dollars in it. He greatly takes it and I thought that was it. Next day he comes to school with a cute present bag all girlied-up with the four dollars in it. Then I make brownies and put the money with them. Today he comes to school with a cake. He still hasn't made a "move."
Do you think he likes me? & What should I do to the money next?

first of all, that is probably the cutest thing i've heard all day. second of all, if he doesn't like you i wanna know wtf he's doing flirting with you soooooooooooooo much. i would definitely say he's got a thing fer you, but let things play out. don't just dive into this one. play it up and be flirty, but don't force the issue. if you guys don't end up together, you'll be good friends because of the money game !

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if you go tanning will your freckles get darker? because i have freckles on my face and arms but im SO pale and NEED a tan. so will they get darker? or just blend with my skin tone?

i've never tanned at a tanning salon before, but i do tan naturally in the summer. my freckles basically just blend into my new skin color. i'm fair-skinned (i'm irish/english)and the freckles first get more noticeable and then they fade away. hope i helped !

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what does it mean when you have dreams about the boy you like? and is it normal or is it weird to have dreams about them

TOTALLY NORMAL. you don't even know how many times guys i like have played the starring role in my dreams. sometimes it's even guys i don't like...but the thing is, you can't control your dreams. enjoy them if they're about your guy, forget 'em if they're not.

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14/f
ok so i just started high school and theres this one guy i like A LOT like you dont even know dude!
but i only see him in the halls and i have zero classes with him. i want a boyfriends really really bad. the only problem is im fat like majorly but not like a big bubble...and i wear glasses the only thing i like about my self is my eyes. i have NEVER had a boyfriend and i've NEVER kissed a guy. but i really want a boyfriend. so so bad.

what do i do?
i know this may sound stupid and u may say focus on school blah blah blah but i can multitask.

honey, the first thing i would do is work on the negative attitude. if you don't think nice things of yourself, you can't expect anybody else to. after that, what i would do is just be yourself. the guys that you will want to be with will care about you, not the way you look at all. as cheesy as it sounds, its true. i met my boyfriend by being funny. i was talking to one of my friends in the hallway and he overheard me. i said something funny, and he came up to me afterward and said that i was really funny and he wanted to know more about me. if you just open yourself up to new people and new things, you'll meet new people and from there, you never know...

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My mom, jeeze where do i start.
Well, she kind of over reacts its like she worries for me. Example: i'll have like a project do tomorrow and she'll be all like "Do it now." and all concerned and I'll be all calm. Btw, I have a bad case of procrostitnation[sp?] It's not like i never get it done i do and she knows that too. i'm a straight A student and she's still concerned that i wont get it done.
Jeeze, dont get me wrong my moms nice and all and i love her to death. she just drives me crazy sometimes.

I don't know what I'm asking here ,but maybe you can figure it out and help me and what not. Maybe like give me some ways to beat procrostitnation[sp?].

holy crud this is exactly what my mom does. what i did to beat my procrastination was actually listen to her for once. i did it just to shut her up actually, and i felt a lot better after i had the work done. if you finish the whole thing early, you have more time to just chill after. now, i do my homework like FIRST THING when i get it. when i go to school and everyone's talking about how they have a huge report due tomorrow, i can just be like "HAH. finished it already." i'm not stressing, and there's a lot more time to do other stuff that you actually wanna do.

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