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so sad :( 14/f
ok so i just started high school and theres this one guy i like A LOT like you dont even know dude!
but i only see him in the halls and i have zero classes with him. i want a boyfriends really really bad. the only problem is im fat like majorly but not like a big bubble...and i wear glasses the only thing i like about my self is my eyes. i have NEVER had a boyfriend and i've NEVER kissed a guy. but i really want a boyfriend. so so bad.
what do i do?
i know this may sound stupid and u may say focus on school blah blah blah but i can multitask.
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One thing is gain confidence to get out of the quiet/shyness. i mean you don't have to lose all of yoru shyness though....because that is what makes you you. But to get a rid of a little bit of it is to just go on a diet. go on a veggie fruit diet. Don't eat anthing else though. everyday just eat veggies and fruit, just low fat, no bread or pasta stuff or junk food. you will lose like 18 pounds in 3 weeks. I promise. My best friend was fat, and i stayed with her at her house for 3 weeks to help her lose weight. I watched her and everything she was eating. You can also get contacts and get a new harstyle or a new look. that way youu can get the attention you deserve. ]
honey, the first thing i would do is work on the negative attitude. if you don't think nice things of yourself, you can't expect anybody else to. after that, what i would do is just be yourself. the guys that you will want to be with will care about you, not the way you look at all. as cheesy as it sounds, its true. i met my boyfriend by being funny. i was talking to one of my friends in the hallway and he overheard me. i said something funny, and he came up to me afterward and said that i was really funny and he wanted to know more about me. if you just open yourself up to new people and new things, you'll meet new people and from there, you never know...
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well SWEETHEART i didn't say you had a attitude as if you were rude or mean i ment the way you were thinking about yourself being fat and putting yourself down. im almost 19 and your 14 im not going to fight with you. you need to grow up though i might add. ]
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