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which should i choose
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i went out with this guy for 2 years, and throughout the whole relationship he was really abusive. he would hurt me physically and mentally so one day i was caught skipping school with him and i knew i would never be allowed to see him again, so i decided to end it. So i went out with this other guy named Patrick but at the same time im not sure who i really want . i love them both but its just confusing cause anthony was such a big deal in my life. I am really confused about what to do. Please help!
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i completely agree with what the other person said on here. if the relationship was abusive, you should be proud of yourself that you stood up to anthony and ended it. if patrick treats you well, then you should definitely choose him.
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Hon, I really think you already know what you should do.
You've stated it. 2 years of abuse. 2 years of physical and emotional pain. And ending it was a good decision on your part.
Yes, he was a big deal in your life. Some of us still have problems and issues with early love because they were a big part of our lives.
But I don't think that he was a good part of your life. You shouldn't have to deal with someone who would treat you less than you should have been treated.
I say, you put Anthony to your past. Remember the good times, but don't forget how you were mistreated. While you haven't said how Patrick treats you, the fact that he doesn't abuse you at all shows that you've really stepped up.
Go forth and be happy, and let not the problems of the past hold you down.
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