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on someone's advice column


Posted Thursday November 17 2005, 4:23 pm

Sorry this is long...

I found this on an advice column. It was posted by a well know columnist, and read the following:

Rules For Kids This list is the work of Charles J. Sykes, author of the book Dumbing Down Our Kids: Why American Children Feel Good About Themselves But Can't Read, Write, Or Add. Rule No. 1: Life is not fair. Get used to it. The average teenager uses the phrase "It's not fair" 8.6 times a day. You got it from your parents, who said it so often you decided they must be the most idealistic generation ever. When they started hearing it from their own kids, they realized Rule No. 1. Rule No. 2: The real world won't care as much about your self-esteem as much as your school does. It'll e...

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Posted Thursday November 17 2005, 4:02 pm


ok sorry this might be long. but i need help.

my boyfriend and i have been going out for almost 4 months. but i dont think i like him anymore, like last night i was talking to him on the phone and he kept telling me he loved me and i would say " i know" b/c i dont want to say something that i dont feel and lately hes been getting on my nerves but i dont want to break up with him b/c i think thats very mean.

any1 have any ideas on how i could break it off with him so that i wont feel so bad?

thanks i'll rate high to anyone whos not a smartass.


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an x on the back of your hand


Posted Thursday November 17 2005, 3:57 pm

16/m. A guy in front of me in one of my classes drew an X on the back of his hands and said something about 'straight edge'. I was too much of an idiot to ask him, so can anyone help me out on what exactly that might mean? Is it bad or no?

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belly button piercing


Posted Thursday November 17 2005, 3:32 pm

I got my belly button pierced a few months ago and it always turns to the left side..it never stays flat so the ring faces out. When i turn it so the ring faces out and also when i try to clean it puss comes out of it...is it infected, what should i do?

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freak dancing


Posted Thursday November 17 2005, 3:15 pm

whats freak dancing?

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Posted Thursday November 17 2005, 2:39 pm

ok all i have a dance to go to tommrow and im gonna go but last dance mu friends said i need to dance more like a slut so can some1 tell me how to dance like a slut.. Hurry!

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Pap Smear?


Posted Thursday November 17 2005, 2:37 pm

ok, i am 18 and a virgin. I am going to have sex for hte first time within the next month. My fiance and i are very dedicated to each other. But my freind told me i should get a PAP smear done before I have sex. My mom said i dont have to do it before my first time but i should do it soon. i dont want to go and get oen before we have sex b/c i want him to be the first one down there and everythign else. But what i am wondering is if they go to do it, and my cherry is still in tact...will they pop it? B/c i really want my fiance to do it...not some doctor. If anyoen could enlighten me on Pap smears and when i should get one nad if htye will pop my cherry if it is still intact, i would be grateful. I will rate every answer i get!

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dark period


Posted Thursday November 17 2005, 2:35 pm

ok, my period has been weird. i am 18 and these past 2 times it has been dark brown, spotty, and lasts only a few days. I know im not pregnant b/c im a virgin. What is going on? Also it has come unexpectadly both times...like early...like this tiem it was 2 weeks early and last time it was a week and a half early...what could be going on?

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i've let my body go to hell


Posted Thursday November 17 2005, 2:09 pm

ok! Well this summer I was on a very intence swim team, and volleyball team! I weighd about 84 pounds! Then after summer when volleyball and swim team stopped, i started to eat more and i just stopped exercising what so ever! And i dont have gym in school! Now i weight about 112 pounds! I really want my body shape back i've tried to hold back my eating but i cant! Please help me what should i do?

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** Makeup **


Posted Thursday November 17 2005, 1:56 pm

Okay I use Cetaphil lotion and I was just wondering if I can wear makeup with it on or not? Because I have never tried it lol. So please answer my question. Ill rate...



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21st birthday present


Posted Thursday November 17 2005, 1:46 pm

It's my boyfriends 21st birthday in about 3 weeks and i want to get him something really special, i was going get him some kind of gadget but i've decided its not special enough.
if anyone has any ideas please share :-)
Also if i get him a watch and have it engraved, would it have to be made out of a certain kind of metal or maerial so they can engrave it and is it expensive to do? thank you

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Posted Thursday November 17 2005, 1:45 pm

i have a boyfriend and there are days when i like him and days when i feel nothing for him.
I get days where i think i wanna break up with him but i just cant because then im going to want him back.
I dont know what to do has any one felt this way?
should i stay with him or what
he's really sweet to me and so understanding but for some reason i feel nothing most of the time
what do i do?

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Would I Be A Total Jerkface? =/


Posted Thursday November 17 2005, 1:22 pm

My aunt passed 8 months ago. Her and I just so happen to wear the same size clothing. About 4 weeks ago, my uncle brought over some of my aunt's clothes for me to go through and pick out what I would like to keep. He gave the clothes to us, so I'm not pressed for time to decide because we don't have to return them or anything like that, but my Mom has been rushing me to look through them so she can clear them out of the basement. Thing is, I don't want the clothes. It's not that they're unappealing to me. It's that it would just be too emotionally upsetting to have them. I really don't want them, and I'm firm in my decision. My mom views it as, "perfectly good clothes", and since they're free, she might be a tad bit mad if...

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dont know what to think


Posted Thursday November 17 2005, 12:03 pm

i need very sound advice on this. My ex and i ended because of something really stupid, and he was so hurt that he just jumped right into another relationship. After months of being with his gf he was telling me he still had feelings for me, but i was so angry and hurt still that i didnt let him know how i really felt!

My ex and i had a long history. Weve been broken up for a year now. Him and his ex broke up just recently.(they break up alot, but always get back together) This is their longest break though.(theyve been together for a year now) Him and i talked the other night for 1 1/2 hrs. During the convo it came out that i still had feelings for him. (he thought i hated him) His first question that he always wants to know...

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science project on rusting


Posted Thursday November 17 2005, 11:18 am

Does water temperature affect how fast a nail rusts? I'm doing a science project and I can't find any pages on the subject. I would appriciate any help!

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Protected Word Document


Posted Thursday November 17 2005, 11:08 am

I have a Word document that I will have protected. I would like to insert a fill-in field that when text is entered the original document will not be misaligned. Is this possible?

Need help fast.

Eva J

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sex


Posted Thursday November 17 2005, 9:04 am

Ok here u goes. I'm 17/male. And there's our neighbor sta**/Female who's 30. The problems that I think she sexually desires me. It all starts when she began to smile to me 2 month ago just after we moved to this new neighborhood. Anyway I was surprised last morning when she called me while passing her house. (She was outside and I respond her). So she handled my hand and moved it inside the shirt &I touch her breast. I can't deny that I felt erotic in that moment." I WANT U": Were her words. She told me that she wants 4rom me to have sex with her. Then I removed my hand quickly saying that I am late for school and I run away.
I am confused….should I refused or agreed?? Because she really success to seduce me and ...

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Posted Thursday November 17 2005, 8:33 am


Lets see...i really like this guy..and i think he likes me.. hes having this party friday night (tomaorw) and he like wants to make out with me there but like i dont know how and im scared if i dont he'll brake upp with me.. what do i do ?

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?!?!?!?!?!?!?


Posted Thursday November 17 2005, 8:25 am

Okay i asked your guy's help once before about my girlfriend. But I have a serious situation, one of my ex-boyfriends called and asked me out. I haven't came out with this yet so nobody knows except my best friend and my gurlfriend and her aunt. I couldn't turn him down cause he's driving three hours just to see me. I wanna go but I don't think he would like the fact that i'm a 15 year old Bisexual and I have a girlfriend. And I don't think me girlfriend would like me going out with some guy!!!!!!!! Should I tell them????????

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Posted Thursday November 17 2005, 7:40 am

ok..so theirs this guy nd ive liked him forever!! and im friends w/ his cousin nd she said he liked me!! but hes been ignoring me lately..nd he hasnt called in like 3 days..nd he's been flirting w/ this other girl a lot..nd so i get that he prolly doesnt like me anymore..but i like him waaay to much..what do i do about it?!

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