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He is my best and friend and was my bf


Posted Saturday November 19 2005, 2:33 pm

Thing is this is about guy whoes my bestest friend, and there for eacher, right now I am graudate Hs, He still in hs for another year. we are close age and we were together for while and still want be friends see other people, but problem thati never did care or didn't had that kind feeling becouse i want meet other guys, ok my ponit is that he hase gf right now i am happy for him, and know that we always good friend, thing is in summer he told me that i was the one for him. we are so connected, ,now his new gf he said she the one, thing is tha i am the one want meet other guys and thing like that but it hard becouse he was only guy ever was in my life, i hoppe someone understand i saying i know cuffusing, i just want act normal and stil h...

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how can i fix my cell?


Posted Saturday November 19 2005, 2:31 pm

it's a nokia. every time i try to write a message... the right letters aren't coming out. my cell was already charged and there's enough mins.. what's going on?

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i stopped... now what?


Posted Saturday November 19 2005, 2:03 pm

13/f
i used to cut but i stopped. i hardly ever did it, like, maby once a month, i dont know. but whenever im really upset, i feel like doing it, but ive tought my self to not cut and read the bible instead. but i feel like i should still talk about it. noone ever found out and i dont want annyone to ever know, but im wondering if theres some type of email or something where it can stay a secret. thanx i rate high


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Posted Saturday November 19 2005, 1:58 pm

18/f. I have a very close guy-friend. Occasionally when he comes over to mine (or I go to his), and he (or I) can't get home (e.g. he comes to my place on his bike, I don't like him to ride home at 3am, it's not too safe around here) then he stays over. He'll sleep in my (single) bed, and we usually end up snuggled up to close each other (e.g. both lying on our sides facing the same way with his arm around me).
My question is - is this ok for our relationship? - I don't want to date him, I don't want our friendship to turn into something further. We are both single. Is it ok to sleep together like this, or will it damage our friendship in the long run?

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kissing


Posted Saturday November 19 2005, 1:56 pm

The first time you make out, is it 'scary'? I know that sounds weird, but I would imagine it would be that way. How do you know when someone's about to kiss you? Can they usually tell if you've never made out before? Help! :)

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Does He???


Posted Saturday November 19 2005, 1:31 pm

There is this guy that I am IN LOVE with. The problem is, is that he is my Ex. He looks 'SORTA' like Billie Joe Armstrong and this guy that I used to like. Me and him last night were talking at one his ballgames and I said "Kody, Fuck You" But I was just joking though and he knew it. Then he said "Yeah I know you do. But 'we' can't here" And I was about to die. And I said "hahahaha Very Funny Kody." Cause I knew he was joking. There is times were he will walk me to the bus and be as happy as anything. But then theirs times when he never talks to me. Like tonight at another ballgame. He saw me sitting with another guy, Jay and I think he 'sorta' got mamd and left after his game. He always stares at me and also t...

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Unselfish sex?


Posted Saturday November 19 2005, 1:17 pm

18/f
Is there ever such thing as unselfish sex? I'm not talking about when you are only giving to receive.
I'm having a usual weekend (too much time on my hands) existential crisis, and wondering whether I really do it because I want to make him happy, or simply because I like being physically close to someone, to have someone in my arms, because I like to touch him, because I find him physically attractive.
And in the same way, when he touches me, is it actually just because it makes him happy to have a girl in his arms?
So, does anyone think its possible to be truly unselfish in this regard - is it ever really about the other person?
And should I be worrying about it?
(NB I should just add that ...

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is there anything i can do?


Posted Saturday November 19 2005, 1:12 pm

hey everyone, i have a really huge problem and i need to know if theres anything i can do to help or fix anything.. my best friend is being forced to go to a different school by her parents.. the reason is because of her grades and how she isnt 'responsible' randomly friday they got rid of her cell phone, and grounded her all thanksgiving break and told her she was going to a differnet school... the school is a christian school and its about 30 minutes away. anyways, they got rid of most of her clothes and replaced them with 'christian apropriate clothes' she'll be starting at the christian school the monday after this next one. i know we'll still talk and stuff but its just not going to be the same having her gone... i need to know some wa...

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anemia?


Posted Saturday November 19 2005, 1:12 pm

what does it mean to be anemic? my friend used to be and she thinks i am now...i don't eat red meat and i always get these really big bruises, that don't really hurt, but i don't know how i get them? and they don't go away for a week or 2. does anyone know what's going on?

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pain?


Posted Saturday November 19 2005, 1:06 pm

I am a 16 year old girl. i have never had sex or anything..so what could it mean if i have this pain rite about my "private part" on the left side. and i have been peeing a lot more at nite lately than i usually do. the pain isn't CONSTANT. it comes and goes, it feels kinda like a muscle pain, like it's not a very sharp pain, and it doesn't hurt that bad.. but i'm scared. if you can help me out, but need any more information, please let me know. i don't wanna have to tell anyone about this if i don't have to!

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Posted Saturday November 19 2005, 1:05 pm

what are some good songs in between the lines of rock and r&b any kind will do except country and oldies

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best friends


Posted Saturday November 19 2005, 1:01 pm

i dont really have any close friends.. i mean i do like 1 or 2 but i dont have any best friends either.. its starting to bother me because alot of other people have close and best friends.. what can i do so i can make my friends and i to be closer friends? i really need help ..easy 5 unless your mean


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Xanga


Posted Saturday November 19 2005, 12:48 pm

Hey Guys ! Does anyone know the code for a dropdown music player on xanga ? If you do i would really apprecitate it if you gave me the code !

Thanks a Bunch !!

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sister n her bf...


Posted Saturday November 19 2005, 12:48 pm

Well, i have this sisters shes 19 her and her boyfriend/"fiancee" have been together for almost 2 years(January 1) all they do is fight and he goes out and stays out ALL night he'll leave at like 6 one night and wont come back till 11 the next day..all she does is sit around and cry me and my mom have told her repeatdly(sp?) to just leave him alone and move on, but shes crazy about him and she knows he goes out nd cheats on her..Later on today me and my sister are gonna be spendin sumtime together and i know shes going to want to talk about it but i dont wanna keep saying everything i say over and over. I need something that will get through her head and make her realize. Any ideas? srry its so long..Thanks in advance!! xox

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dance dance revolution


Posted Saturday November 19 2005, 12:25 pm

i really wanna get the new dance dance revolution for x-box and it says the game is 40$ but do you need to buy the mat with it??

ANSWER ASAP

il rate!!

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Love


Posted Saturday November 19 2005, 12:25 pm

I think I am in love. Can someone tell me if this is love. I'm only 14 but I think I get it. There's this guy that I am going out with. I like him alot. I can't help but smiling everytime I talk to him on the phone and on the internet. I smile everytime I see him. I think about him before I go to sleep and when we hug neither of us can really let go. He tells me that he loves me alot. I think I'm definately in love. So please tell me does it sound like love to you?

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Making my picture smaller


Posted Saturday November 19 2005, 12:22 pm

I want to put a photo of me on my website, but it's really big, and my mom said I should make it smaller so no one can see my face up close (for safety reasons). I tried to resize it, but I don't know how to. I don't have Paint on my computer either, so I don't know how I can make it smaller. Please give me some advice on how to do it, or some websites I can go to that will help me with this kind of stuff.
Five for everyone that helps!

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Tori amos-Cruel video


Posted Saturday November 19 2005, 12:07 pm

I saw the Tori Amos anime video of Cruel. Before I go on complaining about how I can't seem to understand the video, I would first like to ask if the cartoon was drawn especially for Tori's song or if it is an individual cartoon, with known characters and the story of an episode was somehow cut and rebuilt on Tori's song...

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love...


Posted Saturday November 19 2005, 12:06 pm

Hey,

Actually I have two problems...1) I still like my ex-boyfriend and Im not sure if he likes me. Some of my freinds say he does, and I dont want to ask him because I might get hurt and then he might not want to hang out anymore. But I dont want to loose my chance. What should i do?

2) Whever Im around the guy I like, my friend feels left out. And I dont like them to feel that way. But he really doesnt like him that much, so I cant get them to hang out. What should i do?

thanks so much

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What to do


Posted Saturday November 19 2005, 12:00 pm

Ok here it goes...I have this boyfriend and I like him so much. We have been going out for 3 weeks. He is kind of shy and so am I. I mean, I am really outgoing I just get kind of shy around him. We went to a football game last night and I started yawing and getting really tired. He says, "Do you want to go to sleep on my shoulder?" I was really stupid and said "no its ok." I feel really bad though because I wanted to, I just don't know why I said that. So I scooted in a little closer to him and he put his arm around me kind of. There was a bench behind us to he kind of just put his arm around me but didn't touch me. He asked me if I wanted to go see a movie sometime and I said sure. I really really want to spend more t...

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