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i stopped... now what?


Question Posted Saturday November 19 2005, 2:03 pm

13/f
i used to cut but i stopped. i hardly ever did it, like, maby once a month, i dont know. but whenever im really upset, i feel like doing it, but ive tought my self to not cut and read the bible instead. but i feel like i should still talk about it. noone ever found out and i dont want annyone to ever know, but im wondering if theres some type of email or something where it can stay a secret. thanx i rate high


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rockerchick414 answered Sunday December 18 2005, 5:43 pm:
omg im just like that exept reading the bible it 's pretty hard to stop or trying not to think about it talking nrver really helped me but try talkin to a friend

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wjpool answered Saturday November 26 2005, 10:43 pm:
well i knwo how you feel except i have not yet found the stretgth inside of myself to stop and i know i am not much help maybe there is a chat room or something were you can talk about it but not say who u are srry if i was not help

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HEYxBEAUTIFUL answered Saturday November 19 2005, 6:45 pm:
Well I am 13 as well. If you need to talk to someone you can IM me at H0LLiiST3RX or email me at TIFFANIEXOX@yahoo.com and I will talk to you and I have no clue who you are and if you want you could keep it secret. I don't mind. It's really great to hear you are choosing the Bible over cutting yourself. That's really great. Feel free to leave me a message in my inbox or email/IM me. You could also talk to a close friend that you can trust. ♥

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helpachick answered Saturday November 19 2005, 5:20 pm:
hey! well, one website you can go to is www.younglivin.org. i googled for it and it looks like a good place for you to be able to text message and talk to someone about this. it may be a sort of advice thing back, but at least you will be able to get your thoughts out, and its supposed to be a help online thing. also one thing you could also try is talking to god about this. thank him for helping you stop, but now you need him to help you stop WANTING to.
hope i helped good luck
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o0psychicwish0o answered Saturday November 19 2005, 4:48 pm:
Well I duno about any e-mail or anything. But what i do is get a notebook and color it do what ever you want to do with it. And when your real happy or crying your eyes out, just have feelings you want to share with someone write in there. Like a Journal or a diary, Its helpful and that way you dont have to worry about trusting anyone with your secrets.
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lulabelle answered Saturday November 19 2005, 3:45 pm:
You should be proud of yourself. It takes a strong person to be able to accomplish what you have. The only concern I have for you is how have you addressed the issue that stressed you to the point of your doing this to yourself, or have you simply suppressed this and maybe it could come again under another stressful situation. You are definately welcome to email me. Anything you email me will be confidential. My email address is lulabellesvoice@yahoo.com. Or, I have included some websites below. Each have dealt with your issue. Some are articles that you may find interesting and helpful and others are sites where you can aske questions, etc. I hope this has been of help.


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Chicken_flavored_eggs answered Saturday November 19 2005, 3:33 pm:
There are plenty of ways that you can talk and noone has access to what you say. That is, unless you want to give them access. Try an online journal. There are plenty out there.

www.xanga.com
www.livejournal.com
www.deadjournal.com
www.blogomonster.com


It is your journal, you can keep it totally private or you can open it up to any one. If it is completely private, noone will be able to read but you. If you make it public, others can read it, but you can disable any comments they can make. Or what you can do is have a public journal, yet when you are upset and want to talk about the urge to cut, make that particular entry private. Noone will read it.

You need to keep talking about it. Even if it is just typing about what you are feeling, it can be pretty comforting. It may be able to help you and someday you may be able to talk about it openly with others. That is the most healthy way of dealing with it.

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TRAGiCxWH0REx3 answered Saturday November 19 2005, 3:17 pm:
I congratulate you on stopping by yourself, and I have a past experience with this too, if you need to talk I encourage you to E-Mail me on - Tashamohler@hotmail.com . My MSN is the same thing, and my AIM/AOL is x0TaShao8. I look forward to talking to you!

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sizzlinmandolin answered Saturday November 19 2005, 2:54 pm:
There are hotlines that you can call that don't cost anything. This website may be able to help you too.

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It's really great that you were able to stop on your own, that shows a lot of strength and willpower. <3

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