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sister n her bf...
Well, i have this sisters shes 19 her and her boyfriend/"fiancee" have been together for almost 2 years(January 1) all they do is fight and he goes out and stays out ALL night he'll leave at like 6 one night and wont come back till 11 the next day..all she does is sit around and cry me and my mom have told her repeatdly(sp?) to just leave him alone and move on, but shes crazy about him and she knows he goes out nd cheats on her..Later on today me and my sister are gonna be spendin sumtime together and i know shes going to want to talk about it but i dont wanna keep saying everything i say over and over. I need something that will get through her head and make her realize. Any ideas? srry its so long..Thanks in advance!! xox
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shes oblouisly very much in love with him. my sister went through the same thign with her 'boyfriend' and it upsetted me seeing her cry over a guy who treated her horribly but you cant break her from him..trust me. tell her that that this situation is upsetting you on how she lets him treat her like that. make her relize how he dosnt care about her like she dose him. its ganna be hard but hes problly not good enough for her and she deserves better.
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I am surprised that noone has answered this yet. I hope that this isn't reaching you too late.
This guy is not worth crap. He treats her horribly and she should not be with him. One thing...that is easy for anyone who is outside looking in to say.
She for whatever reason is not ready to give him up. She won't until she can deal with it. All you can do is be supportive of her and let her know you love her. Maybe with some self-esteem and a little guts she will realize that she deserves better. She should not sit at home when he does these things. She should get out and spend time with friends. She may even meet someone that she would like better.
In the end it is up to her. You can keep saying the same things over and over, but, until she is ready, she isn't going to hear a word you are saying.
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