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How do I stop being so afraid to do hard things in my life?


Posted Sunday July 22 2012, 7:08 pm

I try to run away from hard problems by completely avoiding them, making them even worse. I don't know why I have this low self confidence when I know I'm able to do things great when I put my mind to it. How do I get out of this funk? It's seriously causing major trouble to my life right now. It's just easier to put things off and procrastinate. I have dreams I want to reach but it's like.. I don't bridge that gap. Like right now I'm supposed to be applying for college (one that's still accepting people for the fall 2012 school year) and my application is due in 1 week, but I'm putting off this very important thing in my life for no good reason. it's the reason why i'm even applying so late. why i didn't do well in high school for my senio...

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My ears: could my earphone jack in my iPod be messed up?


Posted Sunday July 22 2012, 7:08 pm

Hello,

I have an iPod and my Headphones keep constantly shorting out, and I somehow keep hearing keeps getting' better by Christina Aguilara differently. When she says something supposed to sound electronic I hear only her singing with it plugged in to my iPod dock and with and without earphones differently with Christina sounding normally, and I had my ears checked and the doctor says I'm fine. So could my earphone jack in my iPod be messed up??

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feel ugly because of friend.


Posted Sunday July 22 2012, 6:55 pm

so recently my friend told me shes had sex with two guys one of which was a one night stand. but the thing is is that we're both 13 and thoses guys hadnt even been going out with her. (they were the same age, though) And every guy Ive ever gone out with (4 of them) all went out with me because they were dared to. And my friend makes a point of this all the time. Im not suicidal, im just insecure because i feel like all these people hate me because ive never even hugged a guy let alone had sex with one. i feel so dumb and stupid.

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Posted Sunday July 22 2012, 5:49 pm

lets call my friend D.
here's our conversation-ps: im keeping the fact that she had sex and shes 12 a secret. im 13)
D: dont tell anyone
me: i know i know.
D: even R -her friend- doesnt know.
me: ok. i dont get it. im secretly friends with both of you. im friends with you but she cant know. and im friends with her but you cant know. why cant we all be friends?
d: because we dont like you.

this made me cry because it hurt me because they're my only friends and schools starting soon.:( i have a disorder where the slightest insult wouldmake me cry. im not sure what its called, but this expecially hurt me. what should i say to her? I was going to say-
if you dont like me then you s...

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Talking to guys


Posted Sunday July 22 2012, 1:42 pm

Hey, 17/f

Basically I have a bit of a problem with talking to the opposite sex. You see, a relationship two years ago (over in 5 months) only came about because I talked to a guy, and he took it as me leading him on abit.
So now, I cant really have a conversation in class with any guy because I'm worried they'll think I fancy them. So basically in class I ignore the guys and talk to the girls. However, this cant continue as I'll be in a v.male class next year and they'll think I'm odd.

So How do you talk to guys without them thinking you fancy them?!
Thanks

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How to meet girls?


Posted Sunday July 22 2012, 12:13 pm

i am a 21 year old girl and i'm bi-curious. i've been bi-curious for a long time.. i masturbate to girl-on-girl porn, i think girls are hott, etc. i know i'm not fully bi, though, bc i can't see myself actually being in a relationship with another girl. i just wanna fool around and see what it's like to be with a girl. i think the female body is really beautiful and i wanna just see what it's like to be with a girl. i'm terrified of rejection so i don't wanna just walk up to girls at the bar or something and say hey wanna hook up? i was just wondering how to find a girl that would just wanna fool around with a bi-curious girl that wants to see what it's like. am i a sicko for wanting that?

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reverse psychology is ruining my life....starting to get depressed


Posted Sunday July 22 2012, 12:04 pm

Hi i'm a female in my teens. when i am in a happy place, and i wouldn't change that happy moment for the world, i tell myself that nothing could ruin that moment. then, since i am telling my mind that i dont want to ruin it, it's like reverse psychology. my mind starts to think of a way to ruin that moment. so, it results in me saying wishes and curses in my head, but it's not my fault. it is the OPPOSITE of what i want to happen. and then i get lethargic and depressed because i dont mean what i am saying and then i spend every waking minute praying that these wishes and curses dont come true. other times, i convince myself that things are real and true, when they're not and they're just in my mind. as soon as i get words or a picture in my...

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Am I being too jealous?


Posted Sunday July 22 2012, 11:21 am

Hi, I'll try to make this as short as possible and get right to the point. My boyfriend and I have been dating for six months and we're completely in love with each other. He has a lot of friends that are girls, which is not a problem of course since we trust each other. But, lately, this girl has been really attached to my boyfriend. She keeps leaving him comments on his facebook that are paragraphs saying she loves him, he's her "bestie" and is always there for her, etc. The thing is that I've only met her twice and I'm always with my man since we live together, so when did she suddenly become best friends with him?

That's not what has me jealous, though. A few days ago my boyfriend told me that this girl wants to...

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Two year crush, and still can't talk to him.


Posted Sunday July 22 2012, 10:17 am

Okay, so I've had a crush on this boy for about two years already. I don't really get to see him because he's graduated from my school and gone to high school. And every time I'm pretty sure I'm getting over him, he just pops up somewhere. I know I don't have a lot of things in common with him and he wouldn't want to be with a naive little eighth grader, but I just want to talk to him. He thinks I'm a bit annoying and obvious because of these past couple years, but I want him to see I've changed. But how am I supposed to do that if I never see him? I have only ever said a few words to him, but I want to have a conversation with him.

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im a lesbian and my girlfriend wants to have sex.


Posted Sunday July 22 2012, 7:58 am

My girlfriend wants to have sex and I don't know how to have sex with another girl. I need like serious advice!!!

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how to keep vaginal area clean


Posted Sunday July 22 2012, 7:27 am

How to keep vaginal area clean

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Should I go through with this


Posted Sunday July 22 2012, 6:58 am

I was thinking that my ex-wife was such a b**** that at 3 am I would stand on her front lawn screaming the Christmas song must be santa in the middle of July what do you think

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12 yr. olds sex life :(


Posted Sunday July 22 2012, 2:04 am

ok so my friend is 12 (im 13 we're like 3 months apart) and today she was going on about how this boy, lets call him O and her D, wants to have sex with her. you know what? here's the REAL conversation.
D:omg O wants to have sex with me!!
me: but eww you guys r too young and noones gonna sell condoms to you guys!
D: O has pulls, duh.
me: no D its a really bad idea youll be known as a slut.
D: WHO CARES ive liked him for 5 yrs.
me: so? you arent even dating him!!!!
D:what ever you dont get it.
me: yeah i do.
D: at least ive had a one night stand.

i havent replied to her yet but i dont want her to screw up :( i want to email it to her parents soo bad but i dont know...

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How can I come clean to my girlfriend? Overwhelmed with guilt.


Posted Sunday July 22 2012, 1:05 am

My girlfriend and I have been together for about a year and a half and she's been the best thing that ever happened to me. She came to me when I was heart broken and confused from my last relationship, and she nursed me back to health. Though, me being the idiot that I am, I didn't appreciate what she did for me at that time, and I went and cheated on her. I've already went through the guilt stages where I've beaten myself up behind the guilt and completely wore myself out mentally. I know I already don't deserve her and should come clean. The thing is, I love her so much now, and really just want whats best for her, even if the best isn't me. I just want to know a good way to come clean and how to bring it up to her.

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crooked snakebites piercing?


Posted Sunday July 22 2012, 12:14 am

I did snakebites.on my self a lil while ago. And I just noticed they were slightly crooked. I don't know what to do. I pierced a. thicker part on my lip on the right side, and a thinner part on the left. Any advice on what I can do? And I always get this crust around the ball on my stud, I don't know what it is, but when I clean it off. It always comes back. What can I do to help with that also? And any tips on healing them quicker? Thanks x3

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Should I talk to someone another person told me not to trust?


Posted Sunday July 22 2012, 12:08 am

I have had a rough start in life. Like I took it to the extreme that I wanted to commit suicide. I have a survival story that is so horrifying, it made others cry. People told me that I should talk to them if I need to be consoled. Recently there is a person that I really want to talk to about my life, but my grandmother/mother/therapist told me I shouldnt because I couldn't trust that this person could keep whatever I tell that person to itself. But this person is convincing me that I can trust them and I can always talk to them, but at the same time, I have to trust my grandmother's instincts when it comes to trusting people. What should I do?!

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my boyfriend promest me he will engage to me


Posted Saturday July 21 2012, 11:12 pm

My boyfriend promest me that he will engage to me a romantic engagement on the weekend of his 16th birthday and our plan is to get married on my 19th birthday. . . We both 15 now and he's birthday is in november which I think is a good time to think about it through. I love him, we never fight and we've been together for 3 years now and I don't mind at all spending the rest of my life with him! Do you think I'm doing the right thing? Even that I'm pregnant with his child and we planning on keeping it and every night. He tells me to tell little one that daddy loves him so so so much. . . I just thought I'd give that little detail aswell :) so do you think I'm doing the right thing?


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I need advice about my dream of being a singer!


Posted Saturday July 21 2012, 10:20 pm

Hi! I am a 13 year old girl who loves One Direction, loves to crochet, help people, sing, play guitar (even though I do not have one),and be this person that everyone loves to be around. I have had this dream to be a pop sensation for years. Nick Jonas, Katy Perry, Justin Bieber, and Demi Lovato all inspired me to chase my dreams of being a singer, but it is so HARD! Knowing that I cannot chase my dreams makes me lose hope. Whay should I do?

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I just don't know what to do...


Posted Saturday July 21 2012, 9:29 pm

(I'm sorry, this is going to be long...but I appreciate anyone who takes the time to read it)

I let myself develop deep, deep feelings for someone...who already has a girlfriend...normally it would have been , "Oh well, he's taken. Next!" but not this time. This time, my feelings took over me. Whether or not I was going to try to break them up was never an issue, and still isn't. That's not who I am, and I will never attempt such a selfish act. So, I told him how I felt, but also told him that I'm not looking to sabotage anything and then we continued to be his friend as usual...

But here's where it gets a little trickier...I'm very, very sure that he has strong feelings for me too. And I'm not saying...

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How can I completely wipe out my computer and restore the system?


Posted Saturday July 21 2012, 9:23 pm



I have windows vista. Can I get back everything the way it was like when I bought it?

I don't have a restore CD. The one we used to have you can only use it twice and its done, so we don't have a restore CD anymore. I already tried to download anti-virus stuff in safe mode. My computer won't download.



I think a virus has removed a lot of things on my computer and I can't access programs or download vitus protection. I have given up. I feel like backing up my HD and starting over would be best. How can I do this? What do I need?

Can anyone offer step by step instructions so that it is as if I have a new computer after wards?

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