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How to meet girls?
i am a 21 year old girl and i'm bi-curious. i've been bi-curious for a long time.. i masturbate to girl-on-girl porn, i think girls are hott, etc. i know i'm not fully bi, though, bc i can't see myself actually being in a relationship with another girl. i just wanna fool around and see what it's like to be with a girl. i think the female body is really beautiful and i wanna just see what it's like to be with a girl. i'm terrified of rejection so i don't wanna just walk up to girls at the bar or something and say hey wanna hook up? i was just wondering how to find a girl that would just wanna fool around with a bi-curious girl that wants to see what it's like. am i a sicko for wanting that?
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Braiden has a good stating point, but I'd like to suggest another option. You are 21. You are worried what others might think. Nothing has presented itself yet.
There are small bars/clubs throughout the country that are made for gays and lesbians. They are safe havens and are as safe as any straight bars (so, use caution). They aren't necessarily advertised as such, so you will need to search around. They pop up in cities and rural places as well.
Go. You don't need to be the "aggressive" partner to find relationship. Go with a good friend if that would make you more comfortable. If someone is attracted to you, rest assured they will make a move. Be honest with them. Don't pretend you're something you're not. See where it takes you.
Not everyone is lucky enough to have friends and family that would understand and accept your curiosity. In that regard, be careful. This may be a dalliance or it may be a lifelong change. Don't burn any bridges in the process.
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The best way would be through a friend or a friend of a friend. The reason I suggest so is because you already have a bond with a friend then you would a complete stranger. If you are looking to hook up then you should try and find someone you are comfortable with.
No, You are not a sicko at all you are completely normal.
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