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im a lesbian and my girlfriend wants to have sex.
My girlfriend wants to have sex and I don't know how to have sex with another girl. I need like serious advice!!!
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By the way you are asking this question, I can guess that you are in the age range of 12-18 years old. You shouldn't be thinking about sex right now, if you are between that age range. You are too young. I am 13years old and it breaks my heart all of you young people are on this site talking about sex.
You need to focus on other things like going to college and finishing school. Don't let sex be a priority right now. And don't let anyone pressure you into having sex.
~Farrah :)
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I question whether you are really a lesbian or not. If you have never had sex with another girl or with a boy how do you know just what your sexuality is.
Young people, I am assuming that you are with in that age group of 12 to 18, are generally confused about their sexuality. It is not unusual to think they want sex with someone of their own sex or in love with someone of their own sex. Many young people, this means boys and girls, experiment sexually with in their own sex feeling more comfortable doing so. Also parents are more comfortable with children of the same sex being alone together behind closed doors then children of opposite sexes.
For this reason I advise against putting a label on sexuality until you have gone through the experimentation stage. Does this mean you must have sex with both boys and girls to know for sure. Only you can answer that question for certain.
One thing I can say for certain is in college I knew women who today are wives and mothers that were almost totally lesbians in college. Why? Well lesbian sex was more readily available and it was safer. Once out of college and on their own they need not worry as much about accidental pregnancy as they were ready for being a wife and mother.
Do yourself a favor don't label your sexuality just yet. As to your question? Everyone has a first time for everything. If this is the first time for both of you then you just experiment and do what feels good. If she has done it before let her lead and teach you.
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