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lets call my friend D.
here's our conversation-ps: im keeping the fact that she had sex and shes 12 a secret. im 13)
D: dont tell anyone
me: i know i know.
D: even R -her friend- doesnt know.
me: ok. i dont get it. im secretly friends with both of you. im friends with you but she cant know. and im friends with her but you cant know. why cant we all be friends?
d: because we dont like you.
this made me cry because it hurt me because they're my only friends and schools starting soon.:( i have a disorder where the slightest insult wouldmake me cry. im not sure what its called, but this expecially hurt me. what should i say to her? I was going to say-
if you dont like me then you shouldnt have told me you had sex. it'd be too bad if i accidentally emailed those to everyone, huh?
but that sounds dumb, doesnt it? i just feel so upset because of her.
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She's a little immature girl. You don't need her as a friend. If they don't like you, then you need to find friends who do.
When school starts, don't hang out with them and go find other people who are actually nice people. Join clubs or sports and you can find people who have the same interests as you.
12 is way too young to have sex. She's pretty much a little pre teen girl having sex. It's wrong on so many levels.
So move on from these friends and go find some people who are worth your time.
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Honestly, Ignore her.
This girl is young, She doesn't even know what sex is and ratting her out isn't going to benefit you nor is it even going to give you the satisfaction you want.
There will always be kids out there that are mean, drama filled and like to piss on others. If she doesn't like you or want to be your friend then fine. Block her, Move on and meet friends who will like you.
If people want to try and make you feel bad then just simply block them and do not respond to them. Responding is feeding into the problem and will do nothing but provoke them and make the problem worse. Really, Who cares if she had sex. This girl isn't doing anything to be proud of, In fact she just made a real dumb choice at her age and I'm pretty sure you know that too. Having sex at 12, Is most certainly nothing to be proud of and if she wants to continue making bad choices then let her learn a lesson the hard way by ruining her reputation.
Focus on you, Move on and meet new friends who will value your friendship. Crying over childish drama is only giving them what they want. They are looking to tick you off and get a reaction out of you. Be the bigger person
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it sound sounds like saying that would just make things worse and if this happened to me i would not like it if you said that
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